A passing tone, or Passing Chord is just that, a chord to pass you on to the next main chord, for example you have a chord that's the 1
Db / DbAb / FAbDb
And you want to go to the 4th, you can use a chord that'll bring / lead you there:
F / DbB / GbBbBEb
Then on to your 4. Now that's 1 way, the 7_3_6 you mentioned is a progression, a series of chords to get to the next main chord, in the case of the 4th, you'd use a 5_1_4 progression:
Ab / GbBb / GbBbBEb = 5
Db / DbB / FBbBEb = 1
Gb / GbBb / FBbDbEb = 4