i cannot disagree with anything in this thread, but i believe that God has given us the talent to use for his glory, and whatever is right he will pay us. so for my home church i dont ASK for anything. ( i must say though that we are all workers in the field, Pastor, usher, deacon, musician etc. if one gets paid then....... hey you get the picture).
Now for any other engagement i have to get paid, unless i really want to do the gig. I do not let anyone intimidate me into doing anything for free with any " do it for the Lord" talk. that being said, if you like the gig and you are learning in the process, do what feels right for you. I will take a free trip paying only room and meals to anywhere i have not been before over a stay at home gig with pay anyday. peace.