Like I said before, in another post, when you chat or post on the net, it's easy to lose your intended meaning. That's why some netiquette rules have evolved. If you choose to ignore them then you're bound to run into some problems....If your joking, it's always good to use smileys or chat lingo that would suggest you're joking. If not, some moderator (and I'm not just talking about this site) may take your post the wrong way. In other places, they'd say more than what I did.
Lastly, I know your initial post was in defense of this site and its moderators--at least it seemed as such--so I would just like to say thanks for the support. This isn't really a glamourous job, and we're not getting paid for it. We're all volunteers.