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Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« on: February 22, 2006, 11:30:05 AM »
This is actually a serious qestion so don't laugh yet.

Is it possible for women to be sexy in public and be christians.  I am more so referring to what they wear and there assecories.  I really haven't explain myself well, but I hope you get the point.
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2006, 11:49:21 AM »
I dont know if I would deem the word "sexy" that refers to sex, and what ever comes with that word.  I would say classic, extremly beautiful..etc... becasue I know for me the minute i think a woman is sexy, my mind goes there.....and the word says to keep our thoughts under subjection.. So, I think its the use of the word.....of course if my wife reads this...she knows i think she's sexy..and i can refer to her as such... but to refer to another woman like that....Hmm...thats kinda tongue and cheek.. ::).so i would say refrain from using that word, if one is not refering to their wife....

I mean common are you goin to say Juanita Bynum is sexy? or Dr. Rita twiggs is hot? or Mary Mary is so sexy???  it just doesnt come out or sound right.

But you know before I got saved, I was really drawn to deeply devoted  women of God, I think it was because of th fact that God was their number one priority and I couldnt compete...go fig...whose gonna really win a competition with God?  Man was I dumb...anyway..i hope i answered your question or at least gave a little in sight
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2006, 11:51:11 AM »
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
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1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #3 on: February 22, 2006, 11:55:58 AM »
I dont know if I would deem the word "sexy" that refers to sex, and what ever comes with that word.  I would say classic, extremly beautiful..etc... becasue I know for me the minute i think a woman is sexy, my mind goes there.....and the word says to keep our thoughts under subjection.. So, I think its the use of the word.....of course if my wife reads this...she knows i think she's sexy..and i can refer to her as such... but to refer to another woman like that....Hmm...thats kinda tongue and cheek.. ::).so i would say refrain from using that word, if one is not refering to their wife....

I mean common are you goin to say Juanita Bynum is sexy? or Dr. Rita twiggs is hot? or Mary Mary is so sexy???  it just doesnt come out or sound right.

But you know before I got saved, I was really drawn to deeply devoted  women of God, I think it was because of th fact that God was their number one priority and I couldnt compete...go fig...whose gonna really win a competition with God?  Man was I dumb...anyway..i hope i answered your question or at least gave a little in sight

Juanity Bynum IS sexy!

I know that people feel uncomfortable putting people things and people of God in such close proximity with the word sex. I also know I'll be flamed for even saying that. However, that's just the reality of the situation. I've definitely thought it before - so saying it isn't much different. That's not to say I'm in my house indulding in those thoughts - but I've definitely recognized Juanita's appeal as a woman on numerous occassions.

Juanita, Mary Mary, etc, etc ... are women FIRST. I'm sure when you see them, they you don't break out in tongues, and get you a quick Praise Break. Maybe because you know them as being prominent Christian women, you may identify with them as such first - but, to the person who see's them in public, and don't know them, that's what they'll think first.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #4 on: February 22, 2006, 11:59:24 AM »
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Just thought i'd post Mr. Dictonary  :)

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  • Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
  • Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: “The recruiting brochures are getting sexier” (Jack R. Wentworth).

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adj 1: marked by or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest; "feeling sexy"; "sexy clothes"; "sexy poses"; "a sexy book"; "sexy jokes" 2: exciting sexual desire [syn: aphrodisiac, aphrodisiacal]

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« Reply #5 on: February 22, 2006, 12:01:02 PM »
I dont know if I would deem the word "sexy" that refers to sex, and what ever comes with that word.  I would say classic, extremly beautiful..etc... becasue I know for me the minute i think a woman is sexy, my mind goes there.....and the word says to keep our thoughts under subjection.. So, I think its the use of the word.....of course if my wife reads this...she knows i think she's sexy..and i can refer to her as such... but to refer to another woman like that....Hmm...thats kinda tongue and cheek.. ::).so i would say refrain from using that word, if one is not refering to their wife....

I mean common are you goin to say Juanita Bynum is sexy? or Dr. Rita twiggs is hot? or Mary Mary is so sexy???  it just doesnt come out or sound right.

But you know before I got saved, I was really drawn to deeply devoted  women of God, I think it was because of th fact that God was their number one priority and I couldnt compete...go fig...whose gonna really win a competition with God?  Man was I dumb...anyway..i hope i answered your question or at least gave a little in sight

Juanity Bynum IS sexy!

I know that people feel uncomfortable putting people things and people of God in such close proximity with the word sex. I also know I'll be flamed for even saying that. However, that's just the reality of the situation. I've definitely thought it before - so saying it isn't much different. That's not to say I'm in my house indulding in those thoughts - but I've definitely recognized Juanita's appeal as a woman on numerous occassions.

Juanita, Mary Mary, etc, etc ... are women FIRST. I'm sure when you see them, they you don't break out in tongues, and get you a quick Praise Break. Maybe because you know them as being prominent Christian women, you may identify with them as such first - but, to the person who see's them in public, and don't know them, that's what they'll think first.

~OD



I can't edit my post, and all of those god-awful spelling errors ....and...WHAT HAPPENED TO MY GORGEOUS PHOTO?!?!  >:(

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #6 on: February 22, 2006, 12:03:43 PM »
i agree with you MaestroD....but maybe i need to grow a little more...ok..I'm gonna be real.....there are some women who just carry themselves in clothes, and assessories that are beautiful and not revealing and ...your right they are sexy....but I guess to me when i think of the word sexy it....uh....umm....i guess i just drop the "y"...
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #7 on: February 22, 2006, 12:05:00 PM »
God aint through with me yet...
We can go from Glory to Goofy in a matter of seconds, by not heeding HIS voice. M.G. Blankenship

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2006, 12:05:40 PM »
What is Sexy? Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive:

It all depends in the way that you use the word... You can be a Christian woman and still be sexy...But its all according to how you use it... I mean if you are dressing in a way to arouse someone that is just wrong and not very becoming as a Christian woman... But if you were to use the latter of that definition... Then I would say yes...

Often when something has more than one meaning we tend to use the definition which is most familiar to us... Just like with Tonex stating that his CD has explicit lyrics... We immediately think OH NO, I know he aint cussin on his album... But Explicit (as well as sexy) has several meanings...

I would describe myself as sexy (The latter definition)... I love to look good and turn heads... but in a good way... where I won’t receive vulgar comments... As Bishop so eloquently stated... I like to do it up... and it also makes you feel like a Million bucks when you are looking like it too... I gotta look good going to the store... You never know who you gonna meet... LMBO!!!!

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« Reply #9 on: February 22, 2006, 12:11:15 PM »
What is Sexy? Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive:

It all depends in the way that you use the word... You can be a Christian woman and still be sexy...But its all according to how you use it... I mean if you are dressing in a way to arouse someone that is just wrong and not very becoming as a Christian woman... But if you were to use the latter of that definition... Then I would say yes...

Often when something has more than one meaning we tend to use the definition which is most familiar to us... Just like with Tonex stating that his CD has explicit lyrics... We immediately think OH NO, I know he aint cussin on his album... But Explicit (as well as sexy) has several meanings...

I would describe myself as sexy (The latter definition)... I love to look good and turn heads... but in a good way... where I won’t receive vulgar comments... As Bishop so eloquently stated... I like to do it up... and it also makes you feel like a Million bucks when you are looking like it too... I gotta look good going to the store... You never know who you gonna meet... LMBO!!!!


I think the issue is, people's perception of tasteful isn't always the same. So, you'll have a sista who think it's alright for her to wear something shorter, than most people think is appropriate. That's why some feel that if everyone dress 'modestly', that that will rectify the problem.

Somebody may say, well what is modest? I think people KNOW what's the real deal when they put something on. A woman knows what will catch a man's eyes, and what won't. Not to say that women dress solely to catch the eyes of men - but I just used that as an example, to show that people know the effect what they wear will have on onlookers.



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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2006, 12:15:09 PM »
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
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1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)
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« Reply #11 on: February 22, 2006, 12:17:13 PM »
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
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1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)


The DEVIL wants me to ask you 'Why don't you think she's sexy?!" & "Well, who do you find sexy, Albertina Walker??"...

However, I know that this conversation could become very CARNAL quickly, so I won't ask those type of questions.  :D

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #12 on: February 22, 2006, 12:21:59 PM »
"Well, who do you find sexy, Albertina Walker??"...

However, I know that this conversation could become very CARNAL quickly, so I won't ask those type of questions.  :D

Hahahhaa.....Albertina Walker! Hahahahhaa....but yeah, it could become carnal very quickly, thats why I'm gonna watch it closely because it was a serious qeustion.

I personally believe that when women wear certain things in public, it 'compromises' what they believe
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #13 on: February 22, 2006, 12:22:47 PM »
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
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1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)
A woman can look sexy even in Modest apparell... She can do it up in a 3 piece suit, with the hat shoes to match, Rhinestones, and accessorising down... (Sister T comes to Mind ;)) But its all about how you carry yourself... [/size]

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #14 on: February 22, 2006, 12:27:13 PM »
"Well, who do you find sexy, Albertina Walker??"...

However, I know that this conversation could become very CARNAL quickly, so I won't ask those type of questions.  :D

Hahahhaa.....Albertina Walker! Hahahahhaa....but yeah, it could become carnal very quickly, thats why I'm gonna watch it closely because it was a serious qeustion.

I personally believe that when women wear certain things in public, it 'compromises' what they believe

Also, 'sexy' also means different things to differnet people. Some men don't find half-dressed women sexy. While you'd be hard-pressed to find many, they do exist. What if a woman dressed like a Puritan woman is a turn on to him & leading his mind astray?

That's very possible, believe it or not. Subjectivity makes a lot of these questions hard to truly answer.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #15 on: February 22, 2006, 12:45:21 PM »
A woman can look sexy even in Modest apparell... She can do it up in a 3 piece suit, with the hat shoes to match, Rhinestones, and accessorising down... (Sister T comes to Mind ;)) But its all about how you carry yourself... [/size]

Girl, I'm in Arkansas blushing!!

SisterT dresses modest....but some of ya'll might call it sexy!!

I like my clothes to tailor FIT my body. I don't like loose fitting clothing, just because they make one look larger. When I wear jeans, I don't like them loose. Don't get me wrong, I don't wear my clothes super tight, but I do like a tailor-made NEAT look. To me that's not sexy, because I'm not advertising my goodies, but I do wear clothes that compliment my body and all my shirts aren't buttoned up to my neck either :P .

Now I'm a shoe freak, and shoes is an important part to the look. Usually I wear heels. My husband loves to look at my legs in them so I've gotten use to wearing them with just about everything.

I don't wear active wear because I personally don't like it. I'ts that Diva in me.

The only person that I feel comfortable calling me sexy and that I wil call sexy is my HUSBAND!! When I do dress sexy, it's for Big Daddy. Usually Divas are called sexy, but I like to think of myself as "CHARMING'. That sounds a little better....Big Daddy can keep calling me sexy!! LOL!! ;D


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« Reply #16 on: February 22, 2006, 12:50:19 PM »
When I wear jeans, I don't like them loose.

SisterT ??? :)
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« Reply #18 on: February 22, 2006, 12:57:15 PM »
When I wear jeans, I don't like them loose.

SisterT ??? :)


You know what I'm talking about. For me, I rather they fit, and not be sagging, and falling off, looking like they a few sizes too large. I don't like them loose in the legs either. Personally I like them fitting from the waist to the ankle.

And as I've said before, I don't care to have the jelly rolling over the low riders. But that's my personal preferences...Don't hate!  :D

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #19 on: February 22, 2006, 12:59:40 PM »
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
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1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)
A woman can look sexy even in Modest apparell... She can do it up in a 3 piece suit, with the hat shoes to match, Rhinestones, and accessorising down... (Sister T comes to Mind ;)) But its all about how you carry yourself... [/size]


Nakia ~ I believe you're right on point in that it's all in how a woman carries herself.  Also, what are her motives behind what she's wearing?  In your earlier post, Nakia, you mentioned the 2nd definition of sexy and I think that definition could apply to any woman who dresses appealingly (**note: not showing off THIS or THAT**) has her make-up artfully applied, tastefully accessorizes, etc and she could STILL be considered sexy (arousing the sexual desire or interest of the opposite sex) even though that was not her motive at all.  So, whose fault is it that his sexual desire was aroused?  I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

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