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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #80 on: February 23, 2006, 12:21:12 PM »
Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.


Dude, can I pull up a chair?
everyone who was tryin to register for the class may wanna join BTA with brother Jonathan And brother T-block cause the class  that i was supposedly going to be giving has been canceled


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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #81 on: February 23, 2006, 12:26:13 PM »
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Well, welcome to LGM!  I promise all conversations won't be this..."wile"  but glad to have u gurl, and I hope u enjoy urself!  Ya man be havin me rollin foreal!  But I already tole him dat though! ;D
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #82 on: February 23, 2006, 12:32:21 PM »
Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.


Dude, can I pull up a chair?
everyone who was tryin to register for the class may wanna join BTA with brother Jonathan And brother T-block cause the class  that i was supposedly going to be giving has been canceled


Don't be scurd.... do da dang thing... ROTFLMBO!!!!!

wait a minute Nakia bout to make 1000.. ya'll we gotta celebrate i got the cups and plates......( so what if i'm tryin to change the topic)
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #83 on: February 23, 2006, 12:41:59 PM »
so yeah back to the topic at hand ... what about ya'll sisters out there what about brothers( liek me) who are handsome... considerably so and are souled out for Jesus not on some faking just in church to get a wife and then leave brother but are serious.. how do you approach a situatin like that....
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #84 on: February 23, 2006, 12:42:11 PM »
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Well, welcome to LGM!  I promise all conversations won't be this..."wile"  but glad to have u gurl, and I hope u enjoy urself!  Ya man be havin me rollin foreal!  But I already tole him dat though! ;D
thats kool alright gurl

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« Reply #85 on: February 23, 2006, 12:43:20 PM »
so yeah back to the topic at hand ... what about ya'll sisters out there what about brothers( liek me) who are handsome... considerably so and are souled out for Jesus not on some faking just in church to get a wife and then leave brother but are serious.. how do you approach a situatin like that....
nice transition

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« Reply #86 on: February 23, 2006, 01:59:43 PM »
so yeah back to the topic at hand ... what about ya'll sisters out there what about brothers( liek me) who are handsome... considerably so and are souled out for Jesus not on some faking just in church to get a wife and then leave brother but are serious.. how do you approach a situatin like that....
nice transition


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« Reply #87 on: February 23, 2006, 02:20:19 PM »
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #88 on: February 23, 2006, 02:24:04 PM »
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

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<-----That photo right there is not anonymous to my girlfriend; she knows that’s me.
man i aint got nuffin to to hide.. she would have found me out though anyway... sometimes telling the truth from the begining saves a whole lotta talkin in the end....
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #89 on: February 23, 2006, 02:25:27 PM »
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

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<-----That photo right there is not anonymous to my girlfriend; she knows that’s me.

Well, she is tough then! hehehehe ;D
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #90 on: February 23, 2006, 02:39:30 PM »
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Welcome to the LGM fam!  Jniles does have us rolling but he's always respectable!  Much love to the both of you!  :)

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #91 on: February 23, 2006, 02:48:00 PM »
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

P.S.
<-----That photo right there is not anonymous to my girlfriend; she knows that’s me.
man i aint got nuffin to to hide.. she would have found me out though anyway... sometimes telling the truth from the begining saves a whole lotta talkin in the end....

I was just messing with you...sorta  ;D

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #92 on: February 24, 2006, 09:46:19 PM »
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made.  A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on.  If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!!  But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem.  Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God.  I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy.  I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!!  But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy!  (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #93 on: February 24, 2006, 09:55:31 PM »

But, I also heard my pastor say one day,

"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"
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Your clothes shouldn't make a brother sweat,
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just reading throught some more posts and I agree 100% !!!

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« Reply #94 on: February 24, 2006, 10:26:07 PM »
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Welcome to the Fam... Jniles' girlfriend...


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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #95 on: February 24, 2006, 11:39:22 PM »
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made. A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on. If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!! But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem. Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God. I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy. I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!! But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy! (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)

Doesnt matter if the dude is in a relationship, single, a eunuch, etc. If it is thought in his heart, he's committed adultery. We have to look at the deeper meaning of adultery. Adultery is when you're having sex with anyone other than your wife, so you can be adulterous as a single man.  Just because we're not married yet, doesnt give us the right to look upon and lust some woman into our mental fantasy bed.  Thats why girlfriends and such are dangerous to have, because significant others that you arent married to (ie girlfriends, etc) are temporary at best. And if you lust after them, you've committed adultery there to. Its not your wife until she has your ring. So in essence, your girlfriend could  and usually does cause you to sin against your wife.


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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #96 on: February 26, 2006, 07:06:42 AM »
..this is a subject that has bothered me for many years...I honestly feel that Pastors just dont take this seriously most of the the time.
..the problem is that the scripture that was quoted over and over again is not dealt with.

it is one thing to look like a "garden tool"...(think about it!...(santa's laugh!!!) on your own....but women ...why bring it to Gods house?....why?....life is hard enough.....

mothers....having your daughters dress in tight clothes isnt cute.....what are you thinking?
we are talking about church now!
why would you want a man to see every part of your daughter? why...do you think it's cute the way he looks at her?

I am not excusing the men...I am accusing the women...God didnt ask you to look sexy....for the same reason he asked men not to lust after you!

Sexy is not for you to be....and lets cut the "sexy means different things psycho-babble"

sexy is an intent!!!

your clothes should not reveal or closley outline your body parts!...get a gripsky already.!!!!

I think everyon should dress like monks!

I NEVER DID UNDERSTAND WHY PASTORS DIDNT TAKE A STAND ON THIS STUFF!
(ARE THEY COWARDS OR JUST HAPPY TO SEE YA?)

this is a rediculous cycle of the men love what the women wear...but the women say they dont wear it for the men!...

next time your youth choir sings ...take a look at them....Mothers if your daughter is growing...buy her some new clothes!!!...bigger ones...!!!

I have a 17 year old daughter who I saw a picture of and she had a skirt on that...showed her stuff!

I confronted her mother...and she thought it was attractive...This is the Holy Roller...speak in tongues mother every 5.3 minutes who never wore this stuff her self....has her daughter wearing it.....ya think she's living through her daughter.....I protested but got nowhere.....

IT IS FOR PASTORS TO SET THE TONE IN THE CHURCH!...I HAVE SEEN MANY PASTORS WHO SIMPLY DONT ALLOW IT!...GO HOME AND CHANGE!.....

SOMEONE OFF OF THE STREET IS ONE THING....BUT NOT A MEMBER!....

GOD DOESNT OWE YOU SEXY!...A MATTER OF FACT HE DOESNT WANT YOU SEXY!!!!

HE MADE US ATTRACTIVE TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY....MEN TO WOMAN!....

WHEW....I FEEL BETTER NOW!

NOW CUT IT OUT!



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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #97 on: February 26, 2006, 08:09:29 AM »
..this is a subject that has bothered me for many years...I honestly feel that Pastors just dont take this seriously most of the the time.
..the problem is that the scripture that was quoted over and over again is not dealt with.

it is one thing to look like a "garden tool"...(think about it!...(santa's laugh!!!) on your own....but women ...why bring it to Gods house?....why?....life is hard enough.....

mothers....having your daughters dress in tight clothes isnt cute.....what are you thinking?
we are talking about church now!
why would you want a man to see every part of your daughter? why...do you think it's cute the way he looks at her?

I am not excusing the men...I am accusing the women...God didnt ask you to look sexy....for the same reason he asked men not to lust after you!

Sexy is not for you to be....and lets cut the "sexy means different things psycho-babble"

sexy is an intent!!!

your clothes should not reveal or closley outline your body parts!...get a gripsky already.!!!!

I think everyon should dress like monks!

I NEVER DID UNDERSTAND WHY PASTORS DIDNT TAKE A STAND ON THIS STUFF!
(ARE THEY COWARDS OR JUST HAPPY TO SEE YA?)

this is a rediculous cycle of the men love what the women wear...but the women say they dont wear it for the men!...

next time your youth choir sings ...take a look at them....Mothers if your daughter is growing...buy her some new clothes!!!...bigger ones...!!!

I have a 17 year old daughter who I saw a picture of and she had a skirt on that...showed her stuff!

I confronted her mother...and she thought it was attractive...This is the Holy Roller...speak in tongues mother every 5.3 minutes who never wore this stuff her self....has her daughter wearing it.....ya think she's living through her daughter.....I protested but got nowhere.....

IT IS FOR PASTORS TO SET THE TONE IN THE CHURCH!...I HAVE SEEN MANY PASTORS WHO SIMPLY DONT ALLOW IT!...GO HOME AND CHANGE!.....

SOMEONE OFF OF THE STREET IS ONE THING....BUT NOT A MEMBER!....

GOD DOESNT OWE YOU SEXY!...A MATTER OF FACT HE DOESNT WANT YOU SEXY!!!!

HE MADE US ATTRACTIVE TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY....MEN TO WOMAN!....

WHEW....I FEEL BETTER NOW!

NOW CUT IT OUT!






LOL, Well, I'm glad you got that off your chest.  I agree with you that ladies or mothers of ladies should not allow their daughters to dress in an inticing manner.  As far as the Pastors; I think I can speak for several when I say that not ALL Pastors are allowing this to take place.  My pastor is definitely one of them!  ;D  Just to encourage you about Pastors  ;)
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« Reply #98 on: February 26, 2006, 11:40:47 AM »
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  • Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
  • Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: “The recruiting brochures are getting sexier” (Jack R. Wentworth).

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adj 1: marked by or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest; "feeling sexy"; "sexy clothes"; "sexy poses"; "a sexy book"; "sexy jokes" 2: exciting sexual desire [syn: aphrodisiac, aphrodisiacal]

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Listen a woman could dressed in a full suit and we as guys will still look her up and down looking at her assets! Come on you know what he means by sexy! There is nothing sexier than a woman who is an awesome musician! Yes I think a Christian woman can be sexy but have class doing so.
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« Reply #99 on: February 26, 2006, 12:02:05 PM »
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made. A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on. If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!! But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem. Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God. I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy. I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!! But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy! (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)

Doesnt matter if the dude is in a relationship, single, a eunuch, etc. If it is thought in his heart, he's committed adultery. We have to look at the deeper meaning of adultery. Adultery is when you're having sex with anyone other than your wife, so you can be adulterous as a single man.  Just because we're not married yet, doesnt give us the right to look upon and lust some woman into our mental fantasy bed.  Thats why girlfriends and such are dangerous to have, because significant others that you arent married to (ie girlfriends, etc) are temporary at best. And if you lust after them, you've committed adultery there to. Its not your wife until she has your ring. So in essence, your girlfriend could  and usually does cause you to sin against your wife.


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I dont agree! People we are humans and sex and the urge to reproduce is in our nature! Men married or not will always be attracted to women and check a woman out, its in our nature! If a naked women walks in front of my car Im going to look! Thats not lust!!!! Even if the thought comes to my mind Id like to touch her thats not sin (or else we would all go to hell for just our thoughts). Its human! Lust is when I keep it down in my heart and let it fester to the point of action.
I mean we all as men have to have control over our man-ness and have respect for women, and know that they do have faces and their chest and butt are not their eyes! They may have bangin bodies but a woman wants a man who respects her
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