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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #100 on: February 26, 2006, 06:24:21 PM »
I don't know about sexy Christian "women."  I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife.  I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast.  I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?"  Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there.  We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple.  No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #101 on: February 26, 2006, 07:06:00 PM »
I don't know about sexy Christian "women."  I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife.  I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast.  I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?"  Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there.  We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple.  No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

T.J.

 ::) I don't know what bigblackdrummer was talkin about, but yes! You have it Willie T.  You have a good head on ur shoulder and I'm so glad you can represent the good men out there who have respect for themselves and the Word of God.  Keep up the Good work because God is truly smiling on you.  :)

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #102 on: February 26, 2006, 08:54:26 PM »
Thanks Soldier...

The fact that this topic got 7 pages should let you women know...especially those that are married that yall need to pray and not only pray but when you and your honey are together sharing one of those warm moments (not talking about sex).  When you all are chillin and the kids are sleep and nobody is around buy you, you need to talk to your man and get the real on where he is at sexually.  Communication is the key...I'm not perfect but I have no problem with telling my wife "a babe...you know your boy got a Jones"  if you know what I mean.  I mean there are times where my flesh is hyper sensative and merely the blowing of the wind and I'm rhet to go.  There are others when I could care less.  When those times come when I'm super sensative, I let moma know what the deal is.  If she responds then it's "Enter in, into the Holy Place" but if she's not, then it "nights like this I wish, that rain drops would fall."  Don't mean to make light of this but man, if you're married, ruining your marriage over what equates to what my big sister you to call "a nut" is pretty dumb.

How about this?  People normally have trouble applying the bible to practical life.  Hebrews says and I'm paraphrasing that we have a savior who can identify with our infermities and was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.  Jesus was tempted too...  For some of us men, fathers, husbands, the only Christ our wives will ever physically see is us.  In the old testament, the women called their man "Lord."  If Jesus was as selfish as we are at times, then we all would be doomed.  I hate walking around like :o but the reality is, when I wake up in the morning, I'm not like, I'm going to go find me someone's life to mess up.  That's why 1 John says, when or if we sin...if meaning their maybe times when find yourself in a place and you're like, how did I get here.  Let's just hope that place ain't after you just finished your business.  There's grace for brothers out there lusting...there is and Jesus died for you lust.  Not that once you accept him, you will stop...but your desire shouldn't be to engage Operation Bone Her. 

I speak as man married, has dealt with this, am dealing with this and will deal with this.

This is one of the reasons why I get fustrated when the sisters get together to pray, they pray for everything except for their husbands.  YALL NEED TO PRAY FOR US BROTHAS, IT'S NOT A QUESTION OF IF WE WILL BE ATTACHED BUT WHEN.

I've got somemore to say but my wife just brought me lunch.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #103 on: February 26, 2006, 09:04:37 PM »
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #104 on: February 26, 2006, 10:51:48 PM »
I don't know about sexy Christian "women."  I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife.  I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast.  I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?"  Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there.  We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple.  No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

T.J.

 ::) I don't know what bigblackdrummer was talkin about, but yes! You have it Willie T.  You have a good head on ur shoulder and I'm so glad you can represent the good men out there who have respect for themselves and the Word of God.  Keep up the Good work because God is truly smiling on you.  :)

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I'm looking at it realistically and truthful! Something that some of you bigger bible Christians fail to do! Why do you think so many youth males fall, because of unreal teaching! Teach on the reality of human nature and how to over come them using Godly standards. Not spit out all your I`m high and mighty unable to obtain Christian babel ! Side note, We need to start teaching sex ed. in Sunday schools! Its better then a secular teacher teaching our kids it! You understand now! :-*
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #105 on: February 26, 2006, 10:54:42 PM »
I don't know about sexy Christian "women." I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife. I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast. I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?" Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there. We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple. No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

T.J.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #106 on: February 26, 2006, 11:42:02 PM »
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made. A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on. If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!! But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem. Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God. I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy. I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!! But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy! (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)

Doesnt matter if the dude is in a relationship, single, a eunuch, etc. If it is thought in his heart, he's committed adultery. We have to look at the deeper meaning of adultery. Adultery is when you're having sex with anyone other than your wife, so you can be adulterous as a single man.  Just because we're not married yet, doesnt give us the right to look upon and lust some woman into our mental fantasy bed.  Thats why girlfriends and such are dangerous to have, because significant others that you arent married to (ie girlfriends, etc) are temporary at best. And if you lust after them, you've committed adultery there to. Its not your wife until she has your ring. So in essence, your girlfriend could  and usually does cause you to sin against your wife.


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I dont agree! People we are humans and sex and the urge to reproduce is in our nature! Men married or not will always be attracted to women and check a woman out, its in our nature! If a naked women walks in front of my car Im going to look! Thats not lust!!!! Even if the thought comes to my mind Id like to touch her thats not sin (or else we would all go to hell for just our thoughts). Its human! Lust is when I keep it down in my heart and let it fester to the point of action.
I mean we all as men have to have control over our man-ness and have respect for women, and know that they do have faces and their chest and butt are not their eyes! They may have bangin bodies but a woman wants a man who respects her

I dont know what part you dont agree with but I hope its not Matt 5:28 (one of my power scriptures) where JESUS said, "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

It's alright if you didnt know about this scripture. Ladies you'd really be surprised to find out how few men do. I, myself went through  95% (I actually did the math) of my life without knowing this all important scripture, and our mouthpieces at church are slow to find a sermon to use this as a ref. I talked about this in BBoy's post about Shutting it Down, but most ministers will not confront stuff you do in your personal life like lust, simply because they still have trouble with it, and many still do.  Everybody attends their own church for their own reasons, so you may never be in a church where this is dealt with. That's why its up to us as Chrisitinas to READ OUR BIBLEs for ourselves; not somebody's interpretation, but the written word. We may not be fortunate enough to be in a Bible reading/following church and may only have to live our lives from what's preached, but how can you know what was added or left out if you dont know what's within? It's up to us to discern  true/false teachings and true/false prophets. We will never know if we're being misled or improperly fed if we dont study to show ourselves approved.

Before finding this scripture in a book I highly reccommend to all brothers on the site, Every Man's/Young Man's Battle, I was confused about what to do when a lady passed, naked or not. Now, having read the Bible for myself, I see it clear. 
Can you belive that? 20+ years straight of being in church, and I hadnt heard the scripture until I found it on my own, and Im a PK. God had to place it in my lap, because his servants sometimes dont want to ruffle feathers. Read, Read, read. Please read. And ladies, please forgive the brothers who look you up and down, many of them have not read and do not know what the Bible says about looking upon a woman.

If you want, you could survey some brothers and ask if they know what the Bible says about it; you'd be surprised.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #107 on: February 27, 2006, 01:08:51 AM »
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I'm looking at it realistically and truthful! Something that some of you bigger bible Christians fail to do! Why do you think so many youth males fall, because of unreal teaching! Teach on the reality of human nature and how to over come them using Godly standards. Not spit out all your I`m high and mighty unable to obtain Christian babel ! Side note, We need to start teaching sex ed. in Sunday schools! Its better then a secular teacher teaching our kids it! You understand now!


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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #108 on: February 27, 2006, 01:46:53 AM »
I'm being realistic...  I have made mistakes in life and don't want to see people fail.  But like my boy Jamie Jones says, "Why does it take, something so bad to open your eyes."  Nice song by the way...if you haven't heard it, you should.  Seriously, that's why they call it deception.  My wife and I were over the singles ministry for a year and a half and this is all we talked about for a year and half.  That's all singles wanted to talk about.  Funny thing is, you attract what you talk about.  I ain't trippin though.  See when I was a young Marine stationed in Hawaii you could get away with some stuff but now the enemy trying to kill for real.  Dude ain't playing, they got stuff you can't take penacillin for.  Dude...blackdrummer said it, we should teach sex ed in church but we should make it the thing we teach about.  I just taught on this, this past Sunday and I think it would apply here, the church is built on the revelation of who Jesus Christ is.  While we address thinking like teen pregnancy, we teach teens a life of self sacrifice for a greater cause than themselves.  Wow, that's what Jesus did...Phil 2:5 He new he was God but took on the form of man and humble himself was obedient even to death.  Teach'm I know you have the power to chose and you feel like you can do what you want to do but you're responsibility as a believer is not to identify with your flesh but to identify with Christ "Christian" and do the Christ-like thing and say no to your own power and humble yourself and your little hormones.  Check it...for the brothers out there...Anybody can get some...It ain't like it's hard these days!  Biggy Smalls had women...We trip like we King Dingaling and the moment a woman gets what we got, then she's whipped for life.  She should be attracted to your vision and where you're going in life.  Genesis said nothing about love or lust when God put Adam and Eve together but he did give Adam purpose.  Yall better try to fool somebody that ain't been out there playing the game.  Negros trip me out cause they hook-up with a few chickens from the neighborhood, it makes them a playa.  Dude, I've been all around the world, Hawaii, Japan, Korea, Thailand not to mention all over the U.S. and I've seen all kinds of women.  I decide to get married when I was in Thailand one day in a hotel room.  One day I decided that I didn't want to got to the saloon ;)with the boys, I realized that I loved my wife and that I was only masking my true feelings for her by going out with the fellas.  Well I didn't go and when I got home, the first I did was bought a ring and asked her to walk with me.  Negros a trip, got papers on their dog but won't got make relationship legit.

Yall got me stirred up!  I'm just saying, if we going to come of a trying to keep it real, then keep it real.  Just say, I got a problem and can somebody help me.  Don't trip like something is wrong with the church and those of us that are trying to live right...not to mention the women that's trying to save themselves for something right.  I don't feel bad about where I'm at or what I've been through.  I'm not ashamed either because it helps to deliver people.  If we fall, it's cause we wanted to fall.  The sin was already in our heart@!


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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #109 on: February 27, 2006, 01:55:19 AM »
I'm being realistic...  I have made mistakes in life and don't want to see people fail.  But like my boy Jamie Jones says, "Why does it take, something so bad to open your eyes."  Nice song by the way...if you haven't heard it, you should.  Seriously, that's why they call it deception.  My wife and I were over the singles ministry for a year and a half and this is all we talked about for a year and half.  That's all singles wanted to talk about.  Funny thing is, you attract what you talk about.  I ain't trippin though.  See when I was a young Marine stationed in Hawaii you could get away with some stuff but now the enemy trying to kill for real.  Dude ain't playing, they got stuff you can't take penacillin for.  Dude...blackdrummer said it, we should teach sex ed in church but we should make it the thing we teach about.  I just taught on this, this past Sunday and I think it would apply here, the church is built on the revelation of who Jesus Christ is.  While we address thinking like teen pregnancy, we teach teens a life of self sacrifice for a greater cause than themselves.  Wow, that's what Jesus did...Phil 2:5 He new he was God but took on the form of man and humble himself was obedient even to death.  Teach'm I know you have the power to chose and you feel like you can do what you want to do but you're responsibility as a believer is not to identify with your flesh but to identify with Christ "Christian" and do the Christ-like thing and say no to your own power and humble yourself and your little hormones.  Check it...for the brothers out there...Anybody can get some...It ain't like it's hard these days!  Biggy Smalls had women...We trip like we King Dingaling and the moment a woman gets what we got, then she's whipped for life.  She should be attracted to your vision and where you're going in life.  Genesis said nothing about love or lust when God put Adam and Eve together but he did give Adam purpose.  Yall better try to fool somebody that ain't been out there playing the game.  Negros trip me out cause they hook-up with a few chickens from the neighborhood, it makes them a playa.  Dude, I've been all around the world, Hawaii, Japan, Korea, Thailand not to mention all over the U.S. and I've seen all kinds of women.  I decide to get married when I was in Thailand one day in a hotel room.  One day I decided that I didn't want to got to the saloon ;)with the boys, I realized that I loved my wife and that I was only masking my true feelings for her by going out with the fellas.  Well I didn't go and when I got home, the first I did was bought a ring and asked her to walk with me.  Negros a trip, got papers on their dog but won't got make relationship legit.

Yall got me stirred up!  I'm just saying, if we going to come of a trying to keep it real, then keep it real.  Just say, I got a problem and can somebody help me.  Don't trip like something is wrong with the church and those of us that are trying to live right...not to mention the women that's trying to save themselves for something right.  I don't feel bad about where I'm at or what I've been through.  I'm not ashamed either because it helps to deliver people.  If we fall, it's cause we wanted to fall.  The sin was already in our heart@!


YAH BOY!

This really touched me that someone would actually take the time to give his personal story like this.  No doubt this took a long time, and it is great that you are so passionate about this topic.  I don't know about teaching sex ed within the churches because most folk will learn enough about it at school, and anywhere else they want to learn it at, but if an assembly feels it is necessary then go ahead!  I just would hate for that assembly to send out the wrong message to the young people. 

I appreciated your testimony!
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #110 on: February 27, 2006, 06:57:36 AM »
I wouldn't say that sex education should be taught in church. I would say that what needs to be taught in churches is how to love someone correctly (whether it be a another person or yourself).

Part of the problem with the whole sex issue is that no one is teaching how to appropriately love someone of the opposite sex (I didn't want there to be any confusion  ;D). If we properly teach how to love someone in the biblical way; the way God intended, then all this imaginary need for sexual gratification wouldn't be so rampant in and out of church.

But, what happened is that men & women got their Intro to Sexualization from the world, and now the church has to reclaim all of us (yes, I said us) who have been operating via the worlds paradigm on the issue of sex and relationships.


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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #111 on: February 27, 2006, 09:26:11 AM »
This thread arouses a twinge of anger in me, 4Hisglory.  Mainly because of something that happened to me recently (last weekend) that I don't care to go into detail about.  I'll just say there were several women around me setting a "bad example" for the rest of "us", while I was wearing a long (covered my bottom) baggy T-shirt and jeans, and I was still assaulted by some low-life...a fellow military member at that!  ON A MILITARY INSTILLATION.  I don't think it has so much to do with the way a woman is dressed. 

Sexy IMO is an attitude.  I think that it actually turns into another descriptive word:  Classy.  I think women who are labled as "classy" have a certain amount of "sex appeal" that makes them be referred to as "sexy".  The difference is the way they carry themselves, what they DON'T SHOW in clothes, how they speak, how they move, the company they choose to keep...it has so much more to deal with than just their looks. 

Maybe this is because I'm not a man, I don't know, but I don't "drop the 'y'" at all.  Sexy can mean so many different things to me, I'd have to see who the reference is to the word at the time.  Many women think Denzel Washington is sexy.  In most of his movies, he plays a man in uniform (cop, military, doctor, etc.)  He's usually pretty covered up, yet women still think he's "sexy". 

I personally think that certain men...some of them being on this site...are sexy.  FATHERS.  I mean the ones that are IN LOVE with their children.  The ones who are "attached at the hip" to their sons and daughters.  I think these men are SOOOO sexy!  But I am NOT sexually aroused by them.  I use sexy in a way that means anything but it's root word.  I'm sure many women can agree that fatherhood is kind of sexy.   :)It's attractive.  It shows a level of commitment and love that you don't see in just any man walking around.  (Forgive me, 4Hisglory, I'm going to use you as an example briefly...) 

Look at 4Hisglory's picture...you can't tell me that's not sexy.  *Sappy baby-goo-goo-ga-ga voice*  Look at him...he's so cute with the little baby pushed up next to his cheek...Isn't that adorable?  Not just the baby...it's that vision of FATHERHOOD...and of a father's adoration of his child.  Something he had a hand in creating and takes GREAT PRIDE in raising.  MinBrad is another one.   :)LOOK AT THE PICTURE!  That is sooooo cute to me!  I'm sorry, but I just think that's sexy.  Just my opinion. 

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #112 on: February 27, 2006, 09:43:55 AM »
Isn't that adorable?  Not just the baby...it's that vision of FATHERHOOD...and of a father's adoration of his child.  Something he had a hand in creating and takes GREAT PRIDE in raising.  MinBrad is another one.   :)LOOK AT THE PICTURE!  That is sooooo cute to me!  I'm sorry, but I just think that's sexy.  Just my opinion. 

(Peach, don't be in a hurry...your time is coming!  LOL!)
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Well ummmmm......cough, cough, who am I to argue with a woman with good taste. :)

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #113 on: February 27, 2006, 10:28:30 AM »
Isn't that adorable?  Not just the baby...it's that vision of FATHERHOOD...and of a father's adoration of his child.  Something he had a hand in creating and takes GREAT PRIDE in raising.  MinBrad is another one.   :)LOOK AT THE PICTURE!  That is sooooo cute to me!  I'm sorry, but I just think that's sexy.  Just my opinion. 

(Peach, don't be in a hurry...your time is coming!  LOL!)
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Well ummmmm......cough, cough, who am I to argue with a woman with good taste. :)

I knew it was something about Pajarita I likedededed :)

 :D :-[  Man, you made me laugh sooo much!  I'm in a library-like place though so I had to stifle it.  Man that was hard.  I think I almost ruptured something trying to hold in that laugh.   :D 

I was serious though!  Fathers-in-love-with-their-children are sexy!  I hope to marry a man like that.  The only other woman I wouldn't mind my hubby being enamored with is my DAUGHTER!  I've seen men who are considered a "man's man" and "tough guys" turn into puddy at the sound of their little one's voice saying, "Daddyyyyyy!"   ::)  OH!  (Happy tear) It's so beautiful!  ˇAye, Dios! como estoy enamorado con los hombres que estan padres!  (God, how I love men who are fathers!)

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #114 on: February 27, 2006, 10:31:15 AM »
I wouldn't say that sex education should be taught in church. I would say that what needs to be taught in churches is how to love someone correctly (whether it be a another person or yourself).

Part of the problem with the whole sex issue is that no one is teaching how to appropriately love someone of the opposite sex (I didn't want there to be any confusion  ;D). If we properly teach how to love someone in the biblical way; the way God intended, then all this imaginary need for sexual gratification wouldn't be so rampant in and out of church.

But, what happened is that men & women got their Intro to Sexualization from the world, and now the church has to reclaim all of us (yes, I said us) who have been operating via the worlds paradigm on the issue of sex and relationships.


I'm done....for now.  ;)

Well said Jonathon.  I totally agree with teaching members how to properly love their spouse of the opposite sex and even themselves.  Sex ed does not need to come from the church. 
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #115 on: February 27, 2006, 01:51:29 PM »
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #116 on: February 27, 2006, 02:51:22 PM »
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #117 on: February 27, 2006, 03:01:23 PM »
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #118 on: February 27, 2006, 03:22:41 PM »
You could get a million answers to a simple question...so here's mines.

Just follow your heart, for if God is in your heart than you know what is right and wrong.  I know that you know what is appropriate to wear as a Christian women and what is not. Don't deceit your conscious, follow your heart.

I just want to ask you a simple question. Did you ask this question because you truly desire an answer? Or did you ask this question because you want to follow your own way, and you just need opinions of others to give you the courage that what you are doing or about to do is right? Don't be a fool to you conscious, in your heart you know what is right.
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Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #119 on: February 27, 2006, 03:50:01 PM »
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

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