Hey Dude, everyone here is more than happy to help. Just don't need two threads for one topic tho...
Basically go for a 1ply reso. Gives good tone when matched with a 2ply & holds the resonance well. No need for muffling cause if your mic'd it won't be heard & even if you weren't mic'd - the rest of the band would cover your so called excess "humming".
But regardless of all that... & most importantly.... If you take the time to learn how to tune your drums properly & tune them well then your kit will look after you.
Assuming you don't know all of this already...
