Here is what I am doing.
I went and bought a small Berhinger mixer
that has a headphone output. I removed the
powered speaker that I was using for monitor,
and plugged the signal into the mixer. I currently
have only 1 mike on the drums, so I bought a Y
cable to split the signal to give me drums in my
headphones. I can then mix the signals and monitor
through the phones, at a comfortable level.
I was breaking cymbals, and sticks, well I did break
one Sunday night during a song we did for 45 minutes,
but over all this has been this is working great.
I drastically cut down the volume in the plexiglass shield,
and am able to play more comfortable, and more relaxed.
By the way, I'm using some $20 headphones from Walmart,
I may upgrade later, but for now they are doing the job.
If you need some more info feel free to ask.
I'm willing to help the "Family"
For Him, DJ