WOULD U GUYS DATE A GIRL WHO IS BEAUTIFUL OR NOT THAT ATTRACTIVE??? BE HONEST...

[Raspberry07]

[blessedbythabest]

to me its all about being real not about looks. its nothing wrong with looks but realness and honesty and god fearing is what matters to me

[HammerRock]

No. I'm married. 

[sjonathan02]

The woman has to be attractive




































































TO ME!!! That's all that matters how I see her. 

[Keys410]

Give me Beauty and Brains......I tried to convince myself I would mess with a girl that was not so purty lol but has a good personality ....That didn't last to long...So now I am just keeping it real.

[Wayne Webb]

to me its all about being real not about looks. its nothing wrong with looks but realness and honesty and god fearing is what matters to me

She's real, she's honest, she's sweet, funny, my best friend, and God fearing....AND beautiful!!
I married her.

[lordluvr]

I would be willing to date anyone at least once.  If she's not that attractive, then she definitely has to have some of the other properties that I look for, including intelligence, an ability to converse over a range of topics, cooking skillz (she has to be at least as good as me), a passion for life and a passion for God.  Conversely, if a woman is beautiful but lacks all of those other qualities, then I'd be likely to kick her to the curb.  I need someone who can challenge me intellectually and yet be able to just be goofy too.

[Furious Styles]

I have been off the dating scene for while since I've found my wife. My wife is very pretty however if I were ever to be single again I wouldn't just look at how "fine" she is. Physical attraction can lead to so many other dangers that can get the both of you in trouble. I would place how her relationship with God can strengthen me in my walk. Now if she is "fine" and has the total package of spirituality, self esteem, self respect, God fearing, and intelligence then she can definetly be the one. The woman that has all of these could be wider than outside but would I kick with her? Honestly, probably not. Maybe as a friend but not wifey.. Let me stress that from disobedience with my body(sex before marriage) has taught me some hard lessons Sex before covenant always distorts the real value of what a person brings to the table. As Godly men we should be evaluating more than the phyisical attraction that women are. The bible describes women that lack a true Godly nature as silly women. I know I've had my share.  Look what it cost so many great men of God such as Solomon, Sampson, and David. The University of Disobedience has a very high tuition and it goes up every year.  My 2 cents...

[MikeGee]

She loves the Lord and serves him, and has good hygeine.

[MikeGee]

my definition of beauty is different the the media and the world has made.

[T-Block]

If those are the only 2 choices for answering this question, then I choose to date a girl who is beautiful "IN MY EYES".  Everyone has their own take on what's beautiful and what's not.  Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!

[Keys410]

She doesn't have to be a super model, just give me a woman that I can walk the street with and loves God and has brains. That's what I meant when saying Beauty and Brains.

[bishopcole]

The woman has to be attractive

YES INDEED DOC!!!!   Bishop Cole


































































TO ME!!! That's all that matters how I see her. 

[BBoy]

I beleive all people are beautiful. I have never met or seen anyone that I thought was unattractive. That is the honest truth . . . I'm not being super-spiritual, I am just telling it real.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It would be foolish to pass up a Mercedes Benz because it was wrapped over the hood with a yellow bow and you didn't like yellow, and choose a broke down, re-built hoopty because it was painted a shiny candy red. That would be stupid.

Lastly, don't think people look the same all their lives. People are beautiful from the get go, and when they are loved and appreciated and romanced, when they have a spouse that loves them and treats them right . . . . they burst into a beauty so shocking that it leaves people thinking, "What in the world changed her / him?"

First, they learned not to be stuck on themselves and let GOD give them an inner beauty; love, kindness, hard work, a giving spirit. Then they learned to accept themsleves and take care of what they belive GOD gave them . . . make the best of what they have going for them. Then . . . watchout, now . . . GOD's Love, shown through The Holy Spirit, The Word and someone special, brought out what was there all along for all the world to see!

So to answer the question . . . YES I WOULD. But I'm dating someone fine right now, so that ain't a question for me.   

[BEATBOXERZ]

Been off the dating seen for 12yrs. and have been married for 9yrs. Sept. 26th was my anniversary. My woman is BEAUTIFUL and INTELLIGENT!!! STR8 UP FINE!!! I can't be with a female for life who uglier than me or dumb. Yes, B-Boy on the spiritual level  all people are beautiful. But I know some very unattactive people, and it has nothing to do with looks. Their attitudes is what makes them unattactive.

[BaptistPraise]

Why would you date someone you think is unattractive??? I know that shouldn't be all you look for.... but it has alot of meaning in a relationship.

[BaptistPraise]

Been off the dating seen for 12yrs. and have been married for 9yrs. Sept. 26th was my anniversary.

Happy Anniversary!

[iamworship2006]

I wanted the total package. I prayed and then I went and found it!

For me my wife and I met at a lounge. It’s an after work spot that a lot of Urban African -American people go to network; since well, the NW is mostly white. She was BAD!  that is what brought to her then through conversations over about a month at these weekly Friday "get togethers", I realized she had a great personality. Then after an official date I came to her house and that’s when I found the book shelf full of Bibles and books and commentaries and other study materials. So I knew she had substance but it was a process.

But I have to say had I not observed her physical features, I would have never found out she knew God or had a great personality.

For me I got everything I had literally dreamed of as a teenager. I still tell my wife I use to dream of her but then, she did not have a name. I get a bomb pound cake every time I remind her...... Matter of fact................................... .........................

I think I should call her right now.....


***Poof**** IAW exists to go flatter his wife because he wants pound cake
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[DWBass]

I'm married b..u..t..if I were single, it depends if by 'not attractive' you mean extremely low self esteem, poor hygiene or just not born beautiful but has other attracting qualities, then yes I would not have a problem dating a 'less than' attractive woman. I admit to being vane (I'm still working on that area) in the sense that there would have to be other attracting things about her!

[CJKeyboardPlaya]

Well look at it like this....

I wood date anyone that has a good heart and good on her sholders. I dont really look at how she look on da outside.. cuz wats on da inside is wat really counts... Its ok and i wood like for her to have some good features but i woodnt just look at that ONLY. LOOK AT DA HEART CUZ THAT WAT REALLY COUNTS!!!!!