Heres the honest answer for everyone. You date who you find physically attractive 1st and no you cant say her mind or whatever cuz you cant see that until after you have been drawn outward appearance. if you see a female who can have the greatest personality ever but she doesnt attract by her appearance your not gonna pursue it.
shallow maybe, honest yes
and females do the same exact things
Not all of us bruh.
If I see a cute guy, he catches my attention, yes, but his personality is still number one. It is true, if two guys were standing side by side, one cute, one not so cute, then your FLESH would probably draw you to the cuter one. But outside of looks, what does he have
Maturity has taught me a different song. I have been with teh super fine, the mediocre, and the undesireable.... But personality and inner beauty should be 100% important to all of us. Tina Turner was attracted to whatshe in Ike on the outside, and that fool turned out to be a psycho woman beater. Bobby Brown fell for Whitney from the outside, but inside she wanted to unleash the crack head fom within.... If looks were that important, all these famous people wouldnt be divorcing so much. They dont know eachothers personalities, shortcomings, innerselves, they know what they see on TV, and see in person... Surface stuff. Then next thing you know, In May the get married, in June they get divorced.
If cute is all you want, you dont want much. How is their spiritual walk, their personality, ability to deal with serious issues, ability to deal with adversity. How do they carry themselves? Can they cook, are they independent, finances? Job? Self esteem? Respect for self and others
A lot goes into finding that special someone, and you cant just find it in looks alone. A lot of men I have dated are NOT ATTRACTED TO MY LOOKS, they are attracted to my personality. My Go Getter attitude. And that is maturity speaking.... They are lookin for a WOMAN first, and thats what I give them.
...All that fleshly, material stuff is secondary... trust me.
And God will give ya'll an 'ugly' woman simply because your heart is hardened to it. But looking through the posts.... and some of the poster, its not the woman who is 'ugly'.... check youselves players.
