Personality is the most important yes.....If we all are honest if some busta came up to you trying to talk the first thing you see is the looks you dont know anything about that person at that point....God knows my heart...Too be honest what might be ugly to me might be fine to you and vise versa...God knows my heart...So why say God give me a ugly woman with a good personality...When my honest answer is God if you can find it in your heart please bless me with a woman with a good personality and looks...She don't have to be Halle or Beyonce...