Personally, I learned the necessity of a large musicically applicable playing vocabulary. Be ready in season and out of season.
As well I witnessed how important prefessional presentation is...
BTW... the artist Sunnie Paxson's son is an accomplished and endoresed drummer so she knows what is need. Below is a brief bio of her son:
Jimmy Paxson jr. (drums): Jimmy is the son of two accomplished Philadelphia jazz musicians. Growing up in a household influenced by great 70's fusion music and the drumming of Tony Williams , Elvin Jones , Lenny White , Billy Cobham , fused with the wackiness of Soopy Sales , Monty Python , and Benny Hill coming off the television ... it is no wonder why he is such a truley perverse drummer. Though accepted at Julliard by age eleven, it is his years studying in Los Angeles under the tutelage of the late, great Murray Spivack that best honed his skill and style. Jimmy has recorded and/or performed live with Stevie Nicks , Alanis Morissette, Edgar Winter , Sophie B. Hawkins , Rod Stewart, Steve Vai, Ronnie Montrose, Robben Ford, Zohar(uk) and Glen Hughes.
j_kay finds this out upon setting up for the gig.... no pressure right!?