With my music department we try our best to sing uplifting, praise songs unless the family has already requested that a certain song be sung. For example, we recently stepped out on faith a sang "Lift Him Up" By Hezekiah Walker, and the family thanked us b/c they felt that the song ministered to them to realize that no matter what they are going through now, through it all God is STILL Worthy to be praised. We minister to the saints by trying to make the funeral as memorable as possible, and let them leave the service feeling somewhat better than they came. Here's a few we do:
It will be alright-John P. Kee
I'll Make It- Hezekiah Walker
Sweeping Throught That City-Shirley Ceasar
So Many Times- Dorinda Clark
Yes-Shekinah Glory Ministries (This songs works especially well at funerals for young people after the eulogy)
Don't Wait Til The Battle Is Over, Shout Now-Lemme Battles
Just to name a few...