In all due respect to the commentator, why would Jesus want to be crowned by people who are not authorized to crown Him?
The first lady position is not a crown it is a position inherited when the Pastor or angel of the house accepts the devine position. A married couple inherits or is elevated the position of parents, once a childis conceived. They are not crowned parents, even though they the crown of their family. I don't believe the first lady bestows that honor upon herself, I believe the first lady comes very close if not exact to the women in Proverbs 31. In that the woman in Proverbs 31, is not just any woman, first she is married, then she has children, she takes care of her husband and her children, and its not God but her children that rise up and call her bless.s This allegory is symbolic to the first lady of the church, I will stand by this analogy until proven otherwise in content and context by the Word of God. The pastor is the spiritual father father of the church and his wife is the spiritual mother of the church, god ordained family from the begining check out his name in Gen. "Elohim".
For all that she does in to help keep the house(church) clean, dealing with attitudes, interrupted sleep to have to pray for OPP(other people problems), folks stabbing her or her husband in the back and smiling in their face, feeding folks clothing folks, ...etc....etc....etc. God has not said He would send anybody to hell for honoring their parents in the lord as first lady or pastor, these titles are far more an act of servitude on earth, they won't received their just due or crown as you call it, until glory. Maybe you prefer your children to call you by your first name, because you don't want a title, but mine better call me dad and their mother mom, or I would consider it a form of disrespect, but again that's me, and even though I'm yet a young man, I will hold to this tradition, that's just me:) Thak God for the First Ladies!
God Bless,
Robert S. Ellington-Snipes