D'Wayne,
I will be sure to remember you and your wife in prayer. You are about to tread into waters that I have already gone through.
It took the power of God for me to balance full time ministry, full time job, full time student, full time husban & father.
Some of the young adults ask me how I was able to do it. My answer has always been the same. The power of God,
"If it had not been for the Lord on my side" and my strength has been made perfect in weakness. So you can't do it
but, you can do all things through Christ, who strengthens you.
Blessings.