I recommend moreso, that you pray for yourself. A prayer is in vain for a person that doesn't accept they need it. Kinda like a rubber ball bouncing off a wall, the ball doesn't go through it. You can only control YOUR actions and reactions. Pray that God conditions YOU to handle the situation.
Oh yeah, I have these type of folks at my church too!!! Funny thing, God is weeding them out of our church.