Waz good fam!!! I'm here trying to figure out how all of you guys feel about sharing your gear. Now usually I'm a generous dude, but I'm starting to feel like I'm getting pushed to my limit.
Now I don't mind putting my favorite and only snare out for a concert or even my cymbals, I'm just saying if your going to break my head or crack my cymbals at least tell me so I can try to replace it.
Now I've had experiences where I've gone to churches when I was younger and people would take their snares and good cymbals off when I came up to play not because I played too hard or because I was sorry but because I was just young, and I felt like crap and I'm the kind of guy that simply wouldnt want anyone else to feel like that. Therefor I've never really minded sharing my gear...that is up until now...
The thing that's starting to tick me off is that I dont have a job, and usually when I get a lil piece of change I try to get some sticks. It seems like when cats see me with a full bag, they expect me to just give up a few pairs...what's up with that?!?!?! Like I said usually I wouldnt mind but when a whole bunch of people are asking then you seem like a a jerk when you say no to a few and not all, not to mention these arent so much little kids, these are grown men and cats my age, ya dig?
So what do ya'll do when this kinda stuff happens, because like I said I dont want to be a jerk but...well you know