Thanks ya'll!!! So how I see it is that eventually after playing for so long your mind automatically recognizes the notes for each string right? and it also seems that bass guitar can really help your ear to recognize notes better.
Your hands will eventually gravitate towards notes, without you thinking about it... Its more of an occurence when the sound your hear being made by your fingers and no so much, thinking about the notes... The subconscious/and intuition will eventually take over.
I play now and don't thin, E string 4th Fret, Ab. Its more about the movements relative to the notes I am currently playing.
IE: I am typing the message right now, I am not spelling the words in my head then finding the keys on the keyboard, and then plucking them. I have been using language long enough to know how to spell words without thinking about it, as well as type them without searching for the keys, I just no where they are after lots of repetitive practice. To the tune I still amaze my friends at how fast I type, because they are still at the pecking stage.

Hope that made sense.