It's funny that you posted this. I was just saying yesterday how difficult it is to play without a drummer. I had to play without a drummer yesterday. I"m the organist for my church. My sister, who is a beast on the drums, the drummer, has not been to church the past two Sundays and yesterday's service. Now our church is not a mega church and we don't get paid, and that's perfectly fine for me because my Pops is the pastor.
I was upset because it is so noticeable when drums aren't there to keep the beat, Just like it's noticeable when the organist or keyboard player isn't there, that's why I always try to be there, but things happen. Like yesterday the songs dragged because there was no drums to keep the beat. LOL, it sounds funny having shouting music with no drums, LOL.
Well, I don't think you should be treated any differently than the other musicians because to me Drums, organists and keyboardist ( not discriminating against any other musicians) play a major part in praise and worship and everybody else is getting paid, u definitely should be getting paid also.
I say don't worry about it, pray about it.