Don't get discouraged. Your own style will come. It does take time. I had been playing for about 6 years before I really thought I sounded like myself. And now, 9 years after that, I can see a huge maturity in my style from where I was.
I feel like there are things that I could pull off at 18, that I have now forgotten, but the things I do now are far more tasty.
You will come upon your own voice soon enough, and then you will spend the rest of your life honing that voice. That's not meant as a discouragement, that's the fun of it to me! To really sit back and listen, then think "ok, what do I do differently than so-and-so? Where did I pick up all these little things that I do?"
THAT'S the fun part to me. And that's why I'm AMPED about this jam we're starting.