Quick and to the point... I am music director for a church and I have a secular band. If we look at the definition of secular, we find it says "not pertaining to or connected with religion" (dictionary.com). There are many things we "ALL" do in life that are secular. Going to work everyday does not pertain to religion. Is going to public school and obtaining an education against the word of God, it's a secular setting???? Paying your electric bill, buying SUV's and attending BBQ's are not pertaining to or connected with religion. Basically, everything that falls under the umbrella of "secular" is not bad or against God. Christian people fall in love too. So is a song about love and expressing your love for one woman or man (depending on your correct status male/female) against the principles of God? I'm not out there playing 50 Cents, R. Kelly, LiL John, Metallica, Marylin Manson, etc... But Lou Rawls, Sammy Davis Jr, Beethoven, Bach, Gershwin, etc... are not being explicit or over the top. Love is an emotion that God created, deomonstrates and meant for us all to experience. Materials of a sexual connotation, drugs, calling women out of turn, homosexuality, gang and violence are a totally different story! Those are secular activities that oppose the word of God.