lol..an extremely helpful nerd! thanks Jay, always able to assist man.
i like to to tone it down when playing more jazzy stuff, get a mellow tone. guess it doesnt make a whole lot o sense since i got a semi-hollowbody. just haven't gotten into switchin guitars for songs. maybe a few years down the line.
now that i know its all good, i can stop crying (sniff), and continue as normal (sniff).
i do have a minor testimony. my playing has really opened up over the last couple weeks. watchin clips of Joe Pass and Jairus Mozee (cat from Gibby's post), and Uriah's "My Faith Looks Up to Thee Post"....its finally gotten me interested in theory.

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learned stuff i kiiiinda knew but not really..... Em and its inversions can substitute for Cmaj7... learned that one of my favorite chords is called "diminished" now i recognize it every time. learned a I VI II V progression and substitutions for it. and i had this Tamia song on my computer ("Sittin on the job") that's straight guitar using augmented, maj7, and diminished chords. sat down yesterday and was able to figure it out strictly from learning the new stuff past few days. had had the song for months and never knew what was goin on.
had known 1 or 2 maj7 voicings but not this one...Cmaj7 x3223x (or x3243x....which is adding a '9' i believe)..
to know me is to know that speaking this stuff if like learning english all over again, but knowin that im even close to understandin the guitar better is a really good feeling. gotta say thanks to all you guys and your theory posts too.
okay im done. thanks for listenin guys and gals.