Who's at fault!!!

[yamahaboy]

Yeah, He tried to sound proper but ended up sounding like a bafoon with some of his sentences, they were quite funny though!..

[EricT]

Yeah, He tried to sound proper but ended up sounding like a bafoon with some of his sentences, they were quite funny though!..

DUDE THAT CAT SAID THAT YOU SHOWN A PROCLIVITY OF BLATANT DISREGARD FOR AUTHORITY


That is funny.... Imma use that on my son....LOLLOL Then He'll feel this kick toe up his behind....LOL

[yamahaboy]

DUDE THAT CAT SAID THAT YOU SHOWN A PROCLIVITY OF BLATANT DISREGARD FOR AUTHORITY


That is funny.... Imma use that on my son....LOLLOL Then He'll feel this kick toe up his behind....LOL

Ahhhh Gotta love Church Folk and their made up words!!

[teflonminds88]

Hahaha... As true as that is, it's not true in this situation. Proclivity (tendency) is a word, but he just could have left it out. Same thing happened with the "...with impunity..." clause (impunity meaning free from reprimand). He could've left "impunity" out and just said that "...you think you are accountable to no one."

In any event, I think this thread should be locked. Nothing else constructive can come of this.


Except maybe a brief lesson in grammar  (A'int that right j_kay)

[LaylaMonroe]

Before it gets locked, can you offer any clarity on whether the MOM finally acknowledged fault for unreasonably expecting you to stay and play when you had other plans?  Or did he at least express an understanding as to why you felt you did the right thing by leaving?  I'd be concerned if, after all that has gone down, this guy still doesn't "get" that you weren't in the wrong.  (I'm not advocating that you beat a dead horse and argue your point, plead your case, defend yourself or anything like that... just wanna know if he "gets" it).

Lastly, clearly, he (and the pastor) is of the perception that you have a problem submitting to authority (which is often just the leader's way of expressing his/her own ego issues, and usually accompanies the abuse of authority by that leader).  When the two of you met, were you able to resolve that?  It's important to be on the same page when it comes to matters of authority.

All in all, I'm glad it's working out for your favor.  If I were you, I'd request that letter be removed from your employment file.


And uhhh yeah... the grammar and typos in that letter were horrendous.

[teflonminds88]

During the meeting, he claimed that he may have gotten a bit "antsy", because the guest church that requested my service was white. That was a whole other in itself, so I left it alone lol

However it did seem he tried to make amends. This passed Thursday, we visited a local music store to price some new drum equipment for the church. He's giving me ~$1500 to upgrade the kit (i think I've found a new thread topic )

Hope that helps LaRue 

[LaylaMonroe]

During the meeting, he claimed that he may have gotten a bit "antsy", because the guest church that requested my service was white. That was a whole other in itself, so I left it alone lol

However it did seem he tried to make amends. This passed Thursday, we visited a local music store to price some new drum equipment for the church. He's giving me ~$1500 to upgrade the kit (i think I've found a new thread topic )

Hope that helps LaRue 

Well, that's good to hear.  I'm glad it's working out for you! 

[Keys410]

During the meeting, he claimed that he may have gotten a bit "antsy", because the guest church that requested my service was white. That was a whole other in itself, so I left it alone lol

However it did seem he tried to make amends. This passed Thursday, we visited a local music store to price some new drum equipment for the church. He's giving me ~$1500 to upgrade the kit (i think I've found a new thread topic )

Hope that helps LaRue 

What is this one about?

[teflonminds88]

http://www.learngospelmusic.com/forums/index.php/topic,48703.0.html