Hey do you think the young folks have decorum ? Let's look around. There are a few that are ministers of music at their place, and if they were at a place where there is a BIG CHALLENGE in keeping choir members present, going on with THEIR program although pastor isn't fully supporting them, people boycotting rehearsals, etc. they prolly wouldn't last long. See I see them when the the chairman gives them a pink slip. So, they will go back to just playing, which is easy. Extra Responsibility turns some of them away, so they don' really have.. see experience is the best teacher in this field, and until they can give what the church is asking for (type of music) I think they will humble themselves before speaking about they know more than you. They will stay within their lanes, cuz places like Episcopalian, Catholic ( not Roman ), presby, AME (Zion), primitive baptist, SDA, they want certain things. Might be a possibility that a seasoned person would be employed right ?