Topic: HELP ME WRITE THIS!!! AM I TOO MEAN??? (Read 5877 times)

changedman · « **on:** December 13, 2007, 01:43:02 PM »

as I sit here and enjoy my Coke and finish my work, she comes and snatches it from my hand, goes to the break room, and fills the coke bottle and my cup with water...."you know that water is more healthy, right"?

ESTIMATED DELIVERY TIME: ABOUT 20 MINUTES FROM NOW
I like you as a person. You have a very kind heart. The gifts you gave me for my birthday were exactly what I wanted, and the peach candy was GREAT!!!

I have thought long and hard about the possibilty of us being an "item", and I am finally convinced that it would never work because we work together and deal with a lot of the same people.

After being questioned by a co-worker about what happened at my party five days ago, I started to feel rather uncomfortable, and besides that things have been moving entirely too fast for me. I would never want to involve my personal with my professional, and by telling him what transpired between us at my party Saturday night, it is apparent that the situation will not work as it made me very uncomfortable.

I am not at the point of being able to commit my life to another person right now, and it could be YEARS before I get there - if I ever do. The fact that you came on SO strong proves that you are a bit more ready for something on a serious level than I am or will ever be. Therefore, I don't think our paths will ever line up.

I respect you and myself way too much for a casual "fling". So, in our best interest, the most beneficial option is for us toremain co-workers and good friends. I am finally convinced that anything beyond that would not be a wise choice.

LaylaMonroe · « **Reply #1 on:** December 13, 2007, 02:01:14 PM »

Quote from: changedman on December 13, 2007, 01:43:02 PM

as I sit here and enjoy my Coke and finish my work, she comes and snatches it from my hand, goes to the break room, and fills the coke bottle and my cup with water...."you know that water is more healthy, right"?

ESTIMATED DELIVERY TIME: ABOUT 20 MINUTES FROM NOW
I like you as a person. You have a very kind heart. The gifts you gave me for my birthday were exactly what I wanted, and the peach candy was GREAT!!!

I have thought long and hard about the possibilty of us being an "item", and I am finally convinced that it would never work because we work together and deal with a lot of the same people.

After being questioned by a co-worker about what happened at my party five days ago, I started to feel rather uncomfortable, and besides that things have been moving entirely too fast for me. I would never want to involve my personal with my professional, and by telling him what transpired between us at my party Saturday night, it is apparent that the situation will not work as it made me very uncomfortable.

I am not at the point of being able to commit my life to another person right now, and it could be YEARS before I get there - if I ever do. ~~The fact that you came on SO strong proves that you are~~ I suspect that you might be a bit more ready for something on a serious level than I am ~~or will ever be~~ right now. Therefore, I don't think our paths will ever line up.

I respect you and myself way too much for a casual "fling". So, in our best interest, the most beneficial option is for us to remain co-workers and good friends. I am ~~finally~~ convinced that anything beyond that would not be a wise choice and I do hope we can maintain a healthy working relationship and friendship.

My suggested revision above.

drums2keys · « **Reply #2 on:** December 13, 2007, 02:07:56 PM »

man erase all of that. dont say nothing. see what you can get any gifts you know be a man. lolololololol
nah tell her the truth. just say look i aint with all of this and plus you not ready for me and walk away lolololol

momuzik · « **Reply #3 on:** December 13, 2007, 02:13:32 PM »

WAIT TIL AFTER CHRISTMAS!

ReddGirl · « **Reply #4 on:** December 13, 2007, 02:48:52 PM »

From a Human Resources perspective:
A note is evidence. Just bow away gracefully with no explanations. DO NOT GIVE HER A NOTE.

LaylaMonroe · « **Reply #5 on:** December 13, 2007, 03:06:25 PM »

Quote from: ReddGirl on December 13, 2007, 02:48:52 PM

From a Human Resources perspective:
A note is evidence. Just bow away gracefully with no explanations. DO NOT GIVE HER A NOTE.

Good point. I hadn't thought about that.

The more I think about it, the less of a good idea I think this is. Cancel the letter, dude. Redd's right. Just push the ignore button, bruh. She'll get the picture.

Just out of curiosity Redd, do you think there was anything incriminating in his note, though?

changedman · « **Reply #6 on:** December 13, 2007, 03:24:44 PM »

"and i know you're gonna like the taste of that water b/c I even put my finger in it to make it sweet"

...direct quote from an e-mail. Evidence also?

chevonee · « **Reply #7 on:** December 13, 2007, 03:29:07 PM »

Quote from: ReddGirl on December 13, 2007, 02:48:52 PM

From a Human Resources perspective:
A note is evidence. Just bow away gracefully with no explanations. DO NOT GIVE HER A NOTE.

This is so true.

~aLl_Gr0wN_uP~ · « **Reply #8 on:** December 13, 2007, 03:33:47 PM »

Why dont you just tell her to get lost, and Cc: Human Resources. Thats how I do it.

sjonathan02 · « **Reply #9 on:** December 13, 2007, 03:56:47 PM »

Quote from: changedman on December 13, 2007, 03:24:44 PM

"and i know you're gonna like the taste of that water b/c I even put my finger in it to make it sweet"

...direct quote from an e-mail. Evidence also?

I'd hold on to it, nonetheless.

Dude, step away; just step away.

changedman · « **Reply #10 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:09:06 PM »

That's fine. But I am getting MAD (or is ANGRY worse???)!!

I thought there was a possibility of something jumping off, but being woresome is NOT the way to make that happen, for anyone! It's the quickest way to push someone away.

Now, because I'm not talking much, she keeps walking by saying "Hey little Herman" (because my voice mail says "Li'l Herm").

I got a phone call a while ago and just held the phone. It ended with "well...I'll let you go since you're not talking". I wanna cuss sooooooooooooooooooooo bad!!!

I'm at work, what ****** else did you expect me to do!!

But I am going shopping this evening to buy every peach candy they make and put it in the candy dish on my desk so I'll have enough to last a lifetime. No help needed from outsiders of the peach universe! Geesh!

Nothing says "leave me the ************** alone like pure silence". But considering that she did "nothing wrong" (other than got on my last nerve), I just think completely ignoring her is so mean.

A co-worker came by and told me "child she's never had a man relationship-wise before....you're in for some work". I just laughed.

I guess THAT is what the big huddle was about in the breakroom earlier! DANG!!!!

sjonathan02 · « **Reply #11 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:11:57 PM »

You're at work, but your voice mail says, "Lil' Herm"?

chevonee · « **Reply #12 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:14:46 PM »

Quote from: sjonathan02 on December 13, 2007, 04:11:57 PM

You're at work, but your voice mail says, "Lil' Herm"?

ReddGirl · « **Reply #13 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:25:22 PM »

Quote from: LaRue1212 on December 13, 2007, 03:06:25 PM

Good point. I hadn't thought about that.

The more I think about it, the less of a good idea I think this is. Cancel the letter, dude. Redd's right. Just push the ignore button, bruh. She'll get the picture.

Just out of curiosity Redd, do you think there was anything incriminating in his note, though?

Yes it can be incriminating...She can twist it and say
Example:
"Herman is psycho he has this false reality that we are an item and sent me this crazy letter. Please help me."

changedman · « **Reply #14 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:30:46 PM »

My CELL PHONE (the number that she got from my party invitation to RSVP) says "WUZZUP...YOU'VE REACHED LI'L HERM...CAN'T GET AT YOU RIGHT NOW BUT LEAVE A NUMBER WIT YO' MESSAGE OR YOU MIGHT MISS YO' BLESSING...YA HEARD!?

My work voice mail has some lady's voice on it, pre-recorded and scripted.

I wouldn't be that dumb and insane to use my "stage name" on my work phone! DUH!!!

b3wannab · « **Reply #15 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:36:29 PM »

Um, on a side note, ain't you thirty-somethin'? Shouldn't you be "Big Herm" by now?! (I'm just askin')

sjonathan02 · « **Reply #16 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:44:46 PM »

Quote from: b3wannab on December 13, 2007, 04:36:29 PM

Um, on a side note, ain't you thirty-somethin'? Shouldn't you be "Big Herm" by now?! (I'm just askin')

CONFIRMATION!!

changedman · « **Reply #17 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:58:33 PM »

I'm only 5'7.5"!!! What's BIG about that!? LOL!!!

chevonee · « **Reply #18 on:** December 13, 2007, 05:03:05 PM »

Quote from: ReddGirl on December 13, 2007, 04:25:22 PM

Yes it can be incriminating...She can twist it and say
Example:
"Herman is psycho he has this false reality that we are an item and sent me this crazy letter. Please help me."

Better safe than sorry! Anyway this sounds like she is harrassing you CM...you may need to report her before she twists it to make it look like you are the culprit.

changedman · « **Reply #19 on:** December 13, 2007, 05:12:32 PM »

Quote from: chevonee on December 13, 2007, 05:03:05 PM

Better safe than sorry! Anyway this sounds like she is harrassing you CM...you may need to report her before she twists it to make it look like you are the culprit.

WOULD I BE WRONG TO SAY I DON'T CARE!? WOW! THAT'S WEIRD FOR ME (OF ALL PEOPLE) TO COME OFF LIKE THAT, BUT SO TRUE.

I'M JUST GONNA IGNORE THE SITUATION.

BUT...I can't ignore the fact that when she grabbed me and kissed me I did kiss her back at the party. At that time, it was "an attraction to a person without really knowing who or how they are".

In a sense, my conscience feels like "well, this is the monster YOU created so why be mad now".

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