HELP ME WRITE THIS!!! AM I TOO MEAN???

[changedman]

WHY DID I EVER SAY ANYTHING OUT LOUD ABOUT TAKING BLOOD PRESSURE PILLS!!!!??  AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAHHHHHHHHH!


Working late again today.  Decided to get some chips and a Coke to hold me until dinner.

I get up to go outside and take a call on my cell phone about a funeral I'm singing at Saturday.

I COME BACK?  COKE IS GONE!

Ten to fifteen minutes later, it comes back to me from "guess who" with a lecture about how much I don't need them.

Was I wrong for saying "dang....seems like you need a man you can control"!!!!???

[chevonee]

WOULD I BE WRONG TO SAY I DON'T CARE!?  WOW!  THAT'S WEIRD FOR ME (OF ALL PEOPLE) TO COME OFF LIKE THAT, BUT SO TRUE.

I'M JUST GONNA IGNORE THE SITUATION.

BUT...I can't ignore the fact that when she grabbed me and kissed me I did kiss her back at the party.  At that time, it was "an attraction to a person without really knowing who or how they are".

In a sense, my conscience feels like "well, this is the monster YOU created so why be mad now".

Ok now I understand...........my bad

[BigFoot_BigThumb]

Don't write any note.  She could flip on you because she didn't get her way and say that you have been sexually harrasing her.  The note would be evidence.   

[b3wannab]

Eh, L'il Hermie!  Could it be that the Lord sent you this vision of loveliness to look after your health and "well-being?"  She really does seem to care.  I guess what I'm tryna say is, "Is she fine or what?!"  

[nessalynn77]

"Is she fine or what?!"  

Dude, do you ask this question on every thread, regardless of subject matter? LOL

[chevonee]

Eh, L'il Hermie!  Could it be that the Lord sent you this vision of loveliness to look after your health and "well-being?"  She really does seem to care.  I guess what I'm tryna say is, "Is she fine or what?!"  

I may get my backside kicked for saying this but ummmmm  before you answer this question, ask which HEAD am I thinking with. Because it may have been the wrong HEAD that started this whole mess.....Oooooooops my bad

[b3wannab]

Dude, do you ask this question on every thread, regardless of subject matter? LOL

These are just jokes betwixt men folk. He knows I'm just jivin'!

[lordluvr]

I agree that there should be no need for a letter.  Aside from the HR standpoint, it could also seem a little cold and insensitive.  Just use the direct approach (since, the direct approach is obviously something she can identify with).  Let her know, in no uncertain terms, that you're not interested.  

Could it be that your hesitation to take action is due to having at least the slightest interest?  After all, who doesn't want attention of this sort?  Granted, the attention she's giving is more Glenn Close-esque.  If you get home and a bunny is boiling on the stove, run- fast!  

Seriously though, don't hesitate to let this woman know where you stand.

[changedman]

I agree that there should be no need for a letter.  Aside from the HR standpoint, it could also seem a little cold and insensitive.  Just use the direct approach (since, the direct approach is obviously something she can identify with).  Let her know, in no uncertain terms, that you're not interested.  

Could it be that your hesitation to take action is due to having at least the slightest interest?  After all, who doesn't want attention of this sort?  Granted, the attention she's giving is more Glenn Close-esque.  If you get home and a bunny is boiling on the stove, run- fast!  

Seriously though, don't hesitate to let this woman know where you stand.

Now as I sit here and work, she calls!  I'm actually talking to her and typing this!




HD, why have you been so quiet today?  Why have you not paid me any attention?

IS THERE ANYTHING YOU WANNA SAY TO ME!!!!!!!!????????

    (I reply YES...but this is not the appropriate place).

     (Then I say I'm going to church to lay out an obituary that will take 90% of my night).

WELL, CAN I COME WITH YOU AND HELP?

     (No, I don't need help with the layout, but thanks.)

SO, WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT YOU AND I?

     BAM....my dumb, passive, "self" feels like if I say "it's not gonna work and you need to stop" her feelings will be hurt.

WHY DOES GOD GIVE PEOPLE A CONSCIENCE!?  UGH!!!!!!!!!!!

And LL, NO I AM NOT INTERESTED (anymore).  I thought I was and acted upon what I THOUGHT, but now I see I was wrong and it was a mistake.

Because I expressed an interest, I don't wanna be labeled as "the next guy who led somebody on"!  You know!?

[BigFoot_BigThumb]

  UH OOOOOOOH!!!!!!!    Seems like she's already in a relationship with you bruh.   


Get a locking gas cap for your car and check your lug nuts once/IF you tell her what's up.  I have a feeling she is gonna bug.  And don't eat any food she may bring you.  On the real.

[changedman]

  UH OOOOOOOH!!!!!!!    Seems like she's already in a relationship with you bruh.   


Get a locking gas cap for your car and check your lug nuts once/IF you tell her what's up.  I have a feeling she is gonna bug.  And don't eat any food she may bring you.  On the real.

And it's no better that the older lady who works beside me (her "play mom") is now walking around the office singing "Love Is In The Air"!!!!!!!!!!!!!  UGH!!!!!!!

[~aLl_Gr0wN_uP~]

I'm only 5'7.5"!!!  What's BIG about that!?  LOL!!!

LOL... I am 5'10.5" thats without heels.

[jdholliday]

And it's no better that the older lady who works beside me (her "play mom") is now walking around the office singing "Love Is In The Air"!!!!!!!!!!!!!  UGH!!!!!!!

Where is your supervisor?

[BigFoot_BigThumb]

And it's no better that the older lady who works beside me (her "play mom") is now walking around the office singing "Love Is In The Air"!!!!!!!!!!!!!  UGH!!!!!!!

No telling what she has been telling that woman.



Sounds like a situation I was in years ago when I was casually hanging with this young lady.  She lived alone.  I would just hang out at her place sometimes.   You know, watch TV, talk, whatever.  I mean it was VERY casual.  Well I hadn't seen her in a month or two, and I thought I would stop by when I was out one day as a surprise so to speak.  Well, this young lady(this young lady was her new roommate that I didn't know about) answered the door and told me she was not there, but she knew my name and told me she would tell the young lady I came by.  I got nervous because I never told her my name.  So what had she been saying about me?   She started making me more and more uncomfortable when I came by.  I eventually wound up having to cut this young lady loose because she was in a relationship with me that I didn't know about. 

[BigFoot_BigThumb]

LOL... I am 5'10.5" thats without heels.

I like her.

[~aLl_Gr0wN_uP~]

I like her.

LOL... I have nerve to wear 3.5" heels EVERY Sunday, and play the drums. But anyways.... Herman, hows the letter writing coming along?

[changedman]

LOL... I have nerve to wear 3.5" heels EVERY Sunday, and play the drums. But anyways.... Herman, hows the letter writing coming along?

LETTER WRITING?

Man please!  I am entering Volvo Rebate Claims and memorizing the letter verbatim!  Since it's obvious that she plans on staying here as long as I do, I'll recite it as we leave - outside of the building, of course.

As one who has been rejected before, I know it's not gonna feel good.

Again I say, WHY DOES GOD HAVE TO GIVE PEOPLE CONSCIENCES!?  UGH!

[ReddGirl]

  UH OOOOOOOH!!!!!!!    Seems like she's already in a relationship with you bruh.   


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LOL!!!!!!

[changedman]

Now she keeps calling the lady beside me asking what I'm doing.

I PROMISE I do not like hurting people.  I feel absolutely awful about this.  But as Madea said in the play, when you get 35 a light bulb goes off and tells you "this ain't gonna work".

Ms Joyce (the lady next to me) just mentioned something about Zoloft!!  What da crap!?

I WILL NEVER KISS AGAIN IN MY LIFE!!!!  NOT EVEN MY MAMA ON THE CHEEK!!!

[BigFoot_BigThumb]

Now she keeps calling the lady beside me asking what I'm doing.

I predict that she will show up at your house next.  That happened to a friend of mine.  You didn't tell her where you lived did you?  This shows signs of a possible stalker.