HELP ME WRITE THIS!!! AM I TOO MEAN???

[MackyT5]

hahahhahaha herm.....she gon kill you dog

na im stupid im stupid...im kiddin


but man shes a crazy one and if you dont do nothin about it..its just gonna get worse and worse

if you dont run now...she wont let you get away later lol



TERRENCE'S 2 CENTS

[drums2keys]

the funniest thing about the whole situation is the lil herm name lolololol. do people call you lil herm aint you like 40. lololololol im gonna leave lil herm alone

[ReddGirl]

Lil Herm,
She has already bought the wedding gown and named your first child in her head. This sis got you PEGGED.

[vtguy84]

Lil Herm,
She has already bought the wedding gown and named your first child in her head. This sis got you PEGGED.

What she said.

[changedman]

I called. We talked. She's very hurt. I feel bad but relieved.

[BigFoot_BigThumb]

I called. We talked. She's very hurt. I feel bad but relieved.

I guarantee he will have one heck of a follow up to this statement.  Now you meet the REAL woman.

[Iamluv]

I called. We talked. She's very hurt. I feel bad but relieved.

I`ll be she`s not done with you yet.  I, was in a similar situation did what you did and after I, finished he said.....``so what you are saying is there`s no chance of us being together``?   She`s not trying to hear NO. 

I, say no interaction of any kind.  Hear the voice on the other end of the phone, hang up.  See her coming walk away and absolutely don`t accept anything else from her at all.  Leaves a gift, promptly return it.  Don`t engage her or anyone associated with her in ANY kind of conversation where she`s concerned.  You don`t want to compromise yourself in any way at all.  Her behavior is totally unhealthy.  If all this fails, you may indeed need to speak to someone in human resources, just to cover yourself. 

[changedman]

You're right. She's reaching out for love. Maybe God can use me at a later time AS A FRIEND BUT NEVER ANYTHING MORE.

[sjonathan02]

I`ll be she`s not done with you yet.  I, was in a similar situation did what you did and after I, finished he said.....``so what you are saying is there`s no chance of us being together``?   She`s not trying to hear NO. 

I, say no interaction of any kind.  Hear the voice on the other end of the phone, hang up.  See her coming walk away and absolutely don`t accept anything else from her at all.  Leaves a gift, promptly return it.  Don`t engage her or anyone associated with her in ANY kind of conversation where she`s concerned.  You don`t want to compromise yourself in any way at all.  Her behavior is totally unhealthy.  If all this fails, you may indeed need to speak to someone in human resources, just to cover yourself. 

COSIGN!!

[mr.dj]

You're right. She's reaching out for love. Maybe God can use me at a later time AS A FRIEND BUT NEVER ANYTHING MORE.

Nope don't do it just stay away FAR AWAY.

[~aLl_Gr0wN_uP~]

The funniest thing I ever experienced as a Christian is that the very things that we really dont wanna do, or think that we just cant do, or just find reasonable to do... God can always make a way for us to do the impossible more or less. You may say that nothing more nothing less than friendship, but God has the final say so... So you betta treat home girl right...

[Doubles22]

Herm, let me end this issue for you.

1) Push the "IGG" button.  Ignore this woman.  She keeps coming around because you're acknowledging that she's there.

2) Set her down and talk to her, probably in the presence of somebody else that knows how she feels about you (so that you'll have a witness to co-sign), and make your feelings known.

























3) Know what floor you work on.  If worse comes to worse, there's gotta be a flight of stairs nearby that she could accidentally fall or be thrown down. 

[changedman]

I simply explained that due to the nature of the situation (working together, knowing the same folks, personality differences, and being on different pages as far as the AGGRESSIVENESS of pursuit), I felt uncomfortable and that was my confirmation that anything other than a friendship will never work.  She was very hurt.

I didn't want to harden the blow, but I did tell her that in the future if she meets a guy and likes him, too much aggression can be a turn off and push him away.  If a person says "take it slow and give me space" that's exactly what that means.  She understood, but still showed signs of being very hurt and disappointed.

I stopped this morning and bought flowers (peach, yellow, and white roses...NO RED) and a thank you card for all of the gifts she gave me for my birthday and my birthday-week.  She came and hugged me and thanked me and said it made her feel better.

After the hug, I shook her hand and said "Friends always?" and she said "always friends".

All's well that ends well.


On the flip side, when I was in love I pursued my ex AGGRESSIVELY because I knew that she was what I wanted.  If the way I felt in this is how my ex felt back then, now I understand why she ran with both feet.  I loved her too much.  So, there was a lesson learned in all of this for me as well.

Finally, I think I have reached a temporary point of contentment with being single and by myself.  Praise God!!!

[~aLl_Gr0wN_uP~]

Herm, let me end this issue for you.

1) Push the "IGG" button.  Ignore this woman.  She keeps coming around because you're acknowledging that she's there.

2) Set her down and talk to her, probably in the presence of somebody else that knows how she feels about you (so that you'll have a witness to co-sign), and make your feelings known.

Thats it right there.

[sjonathan02]

I simply explained that due to the nature of the situation (working together, knowing the same folks, personality differences, and being on different pages as far as the AGGRESSIVENESS of pursuit), I felt uncomfortable and that was my confirmation that anything other than a friendship will never work.  She was very hurt.

I didn't want to harden the blow, but I did tell her that in the future if she meets a guy and likes him, too much aggression can be a turn off and push him away.  If a person says "take it slow and give me space" that's exactly what that means.  She understood, but still showed signs of being very hurt and disappointed.

I stopped this morning and bought flowers (peach, yellow, and white roses...NO RED) and a thank you card for all of the gifts she gave me for my birthday and my birthday-week.  She came and hugged me and thanked me and said it made her feel better.

After the hug, I shook her hand and said "Friends always?" and she said "always friends".

All's well that ends well.


On the flip side, when I was in love I pursued my ex AGGRESSIVELY because I knew that she was what I wanted.  If the way I felt in this is how my ex felt back then, now I understand why she ran with both feet.  I loved her too much.  So, there was a lesson learned in all of this for me as well.

Finally, I think I have reached a temporary point of contentment with being single and by myself.  Praise God!!!

*thinking aloud*

Why does your contentment have to be "temporary"? 

*walks away whistling, "The Little Drummer boy"*

[~aLl_Gr0wN_uP~]

*thinking aloud*

Why does your contentment have to be "temporary"? 

*walks away whistling, "The Little Drummer boy"*

talk about BLAST!

[changedman]

Because after 34 Christmases past, the GIFT OF SINGLENESS has never been left under my tree, and even if it had been I would have written RETURN TO SENDER on it IN BLOOD and kicked it back to its destination through the nearest door!

RUM PUM PUM PUM!

[sjonathan02]

Because after 34 Christmases past, the GIFT OF SINGLENESS has never been left under my tree, and even if it had been I would have written RETURN TO SENDER on it IN BLOOD and kicked it back to its destination through the nearest door!

RUM PUM PUM PUM!

SMH

[T-Block]

AHHHHH, looks like the drama is over, at least for now.  Until the next episode of "As Herman Dickey Turns", yall be good now.

[SirTJ]

Lil Herm...I just can't get enough of that name. 

Singleness isn't all that bad. Ask around...you'll see. With all of the women-folk flocking you, atleast you know it's not because you're an ugly duckling.