HERMIE-HERM!!! JEALOUSY IS A SIN!!!! NOW STOP!!!!!

[LaylaMonroe]

I knew that eventually, this thread
was gonna take a turn for the worse....

Let the record show, that I only said what I think Jonathan m a y   h a v e meant... Being that I have ADD myself (the real kind), I really shouldn't be held accountable for my take on what he said...  


 

[changedman]

I know I'm late Herm... but I'm curious as to why you only compete with black men in the office.  That narrows the playing field quite a bit, doesn't it?  If you want to top of the charts, you gotta get more than the black vote, lol.

Because the other men aren't a threat per se.

The NEED for attention?  You may be on to something there.  It literally MAKES MY DAY when I come in early in the morning and I have a swarm of females standing at my desk talking about my nice shirt or nice fragrance.  I could literally jump off the top of the building from the joy that gives me.  Real talk.

It's an EGO BOOST definitely.  I can't deny that.

I'm not old.  Not ugly.  And they realize that....DAILY!  Just like I do!  I love it!!!

[themidiroom]

It literally MAKES MY DAY when I come in early in the morning and I have a swarm of females standing at my desk talking about my nice shirt or nice fragrance.  I could literally jump off the top of the building from the joy that gives me.  Real talk.

It's an EGO BOOST definitely.  I can't deny that.

I'm not old.  Not ugly.  And they realize that....DAILY!  Just like I do!  I love it!!!

Where's Dr Phill when we need him?   

[under13]

Because  the other men aren't a threat per se.

Thats what you think. Sisters are exploring thier options in 2008

The NEED for attention?  You may be on to something there.  It literally MAKES MY DAY when I come in early in the morning and I have a swarm of females standing at my desk talking about my nice shirt or nice fragrance.  I could literally jump off the top of the building from the joy that gives me.  Real talk.

It's an EGO BOOST definitely.  I can't deny that.

I'm not old.  Not ugly.  And they realize that....DAILY!  Just like I do!  I love it!!!

That Really annoys me at work. I get tired of them old ladies commenting  on my Fashion or my glasses or whatever

[Redy2bUsed]

Where's Dr Phill when we need him?   

Stop it man...Stop it!!!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

[changedman]

Thats what you think. Sisters are exploring thier options in 2008

That Really annoys me at work. I get tired of them old ladies commenting  on my Fashion or my glasses or whatever

LOL!!!  The old ones are the best ones.  I've had whole sweet potato pies and banana puddings brought to me.

One older lady is my "chicken buddy".  If she goes to Popeye's or Schnuck's for lunch, she eats chicken and brings me some too.

The attention from the 60+ crowd is almost better than the 25 - 30'something crew!

[LaylaMonroe]

Because the other men aren't a threat per se.

The NEED for attention?  You may be on to something there.  It literally MAKES MY DAY when I come in early in the morning and I have a swarm of females standing at my desk talking about my nice shirt or nice fragrance.  I could literally jump off the top of the building from the joy that gives me.  Real talk.

It's an EGO BOOST definitely.  I can't deny that.

I'm not old.  Not ugly.  And they realize that....DAILY!  Just like I do!  I love it!!!

Yeah, it can indeed feel good to get that kind of attention.  

Do you think that need for attention ever spills over into other areas of your life?  And do you ever wonder where that need comes from?

[keptbyJesus]

So what's everybody having for dinner tonight?

[under13]

Yeah, it can indeed feel good to get that kind of attention.  

Do you think that need for attention ever spills over into other areas of your life?  And do you ever wonder where that need comes from?

Why you up in hear talkin llike Oprah?

[LaylaMonroe]

So what's everybody having for dinner tonight?

Pizza.

[keptbyJesus]

Pizza.

mmm that sounds good, I have a taste for sloppy joes & fries, I think that's what I'm gonna cook, but Pizza is way easier!  hmmm, I'll decide on the way home.

[ministerofmusic02]

Well actually guys to tell you the truth...I'd probably be jealous too.........Because now that dude is gonna get alot of favoritism and its totally not fair!!!!!

[changedman]

Well actually guys to tell you the truth...I'd probably be jealous too.........Because now that dude is gonna get alot of favoritism and its totally not fair!!!!!

YOU ARE A TRIP!!!


KBJ CAREFULLY AND TACTFULLY CHANGED THE SUBJECT AND THEN YOU HAD TO TAKE IT THERE...AGAIN!   

YOU SEE DR. LARUE WAS TRYING TO PSYCHO-ANALYZE ME AND YOU TRIED TO "BREAK THE FLOW".  THAT AIN'T DA HOLY GHOST!  LOL!!!

[Redy2bUsed]

YOU ARE A TRIP!!!


KBJ CAREFULLY AND TACTFULLY CHANGED THE SUBJECT AND THEN YOU HAD TO TAKE IT THERE...AGAIN!   

YOU SEE DR. LARUE WAS TRYING TO PSYCHO-ANALYZE ME AND YOU TRIED TO "BREAK THE FLOW".  THAT AIN'T DA HOLY GHOST!  LOL!!!

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

[LaylaMonroe]

YOU ARE A TRIP!!!


KBJ CAREFULLY AND TACTFULLY CHANGED THE SUBJECT AND THEN YOU HAD TO TAKE IT THERE...AGAIN!   

YOU SEE DR. LARUE WAS TRYING TO PSYCHO-ANALYZE ME AND YOU TRIED TO "BREAK THE FLOW".  THAT AIN'T DA HOLY GHOST!  LOL!!!

Huh?  Who me???

I was just sayin, though..... 

[themidiroom]

Do you think that need for attention ever spills over into other areas of your life?  And do you ever wonder where that need comes from?

I'm glad you asked because inquiring minds(want to) know

[LaylaMonroe]

I'm glad you asked because inquiring minds(want to) know

Now, I'm just an analytical, inquisitive person by nature.... what's your excuse? 

[ministerofmusic02]

YOU ARE A TRIP!!!


KBJ CAREFULLY AND TACTFULLY CHANGED THE SUBJECT AND THEN YOU HAD TO TAKE IT THERE...AGAIN!   

YOU SEE DR. LARUE WAS TRYING TO PSYCHO-ANALYZE ME AND YOU TRIED TO "BREAK THE FLOW".  THAT AIN'T DA HOLY GHOST!  LOL!!!

Yeah well I wasnt ale to respond before they changed the subject so I went ahead and added my views in the conversations

[sjonathan02]

It took me about 3.7 seconds to get that, but once I got it, I gotta say:

BRILLIANT.

Thank ya kindly, sis.

Yeah, it can indeed feel good to get that kind of attention. 

Do you think that need for attention ever spills over into other areas of your life?  And do you ever wonder where that need comes from?

Good questions....that went unanswered, BTW.


Redy, THIS thread was off by a long shot from JUMP, playa.

[changedman]

Now, I'm just an analytical, inquisitive person by nature.... what's your excuse? 

I love the attention I give me.  I love the attention God gives me.  I love the attention y'all give me! I love it all!

Hope that answers the question....

That's why in a sense I feel we are kindred spirits of some kind.  It's kind of like when somebody submits a post about their Chucky doll coming to life and you instantly reply with "I remember when I had a Chucky doll".  Or, someone gives a testimony about a situation they recently came out of, and from one end of the spectrum to the other, you always have a similar story or experience.

On one hand, one could look at that and say "boy....she's always trying to put the spotlight on herself".  But a guy like me (your kindred spirit) respects that and says "wow...this lady has been through a lot...her life is meant to be a blessing to someone else who's already been there".

It's all in your perception, I guess.  But anyone who's been around LGM (especially Nessa and DivaT) can tell you "Herman's love affair with Herman did NOT just start yesterday".  LOL!!!!!!!