Wow. Interesting stuff.
I'm kinda caught between a rock and a hard place, here... LOL.
I'm trying to stay out of the fray on this one, but I really hate passive-aggression, and being that I've said so countless times, I don't want to be a hypocrite. So, I'm just going to share my thoughts and take whatever fire comes with it.
I'm really disappointed at the direction this thread took after our fruitful discussion in VT's "Opinionated" thread yesterday. We all have opinions (and Lord knows mine come a dime a dozen), but as Christians, we DO need to be more tactful in sharing them. And as VT (I think?) said in that other thread, we don't want to say anything that
might be offensive to a person if they were standing right here among us. And like Sister T (I think?) said in that thread, we don't want to make excuses for saying things tactlessly.
I respect everyone's right to their opinion. But, I really don't think we should be calling names in this thread under any circumstances at all, unless what we're saying is edifying or positive. Shun the very appearance. Even if we don't mean to be offensive, sometimes, we can. And what's worse is that online, you may not ever even know how far your words can reach. The devil is a master manipulator. He can turn your not-so-bad intentions into a hot mess just to tear up the body.
That's my two cents. If y'all don't hear from me anymore, I ran off to Costa Rica. LOL