I hear ya VT.
The lady that I am talking to is also a Sagitarian and she is a nice-hearted person as well.
I have always "blamed" that part of me on something spiritual. It's like...I see the "underdog"...the person who is feeling low....down in the dumps...and something in me just rushes to the point of loving them through it....many times it gets mistaken for "being flirtatious" when it's actually not.
I just think back on the days and times when I have been going through and only WISHED I could hear someone say "hang in there...I love you" in a platonic way, but it never happened...sometimes not even from my own kin. I don't want that kind of pain to be inflicted on anyone else, so I move....often times without thinking twice.
I like the way you put quotes around "friend", "her", and "boo". That is very creative, by the way.
But she knows who she is, and even she has suggested something to do because she understands my mission to make another person feel good who does not.
Let me "indemnify" myself by saying SOME PEOPLE ON LGM were the ones who implied that I liked my co-worker and/or had feelings for her. That never came out of my mouth...but as usual, church people take one piece of something and run with it....which doesn't surprise me.
Being in an "open forum" does give people the right to give their opinions within means, and it opens me up to always be "in the line of fire". But, in those dark and lonely hours, it gives those same people a chance to take a look at themselves - some to see that they have been there but would never admit it, others to realize that they wish they could be half the honest/transparent/caring/loving person that I am.
Either way, it's all in love.
You know what's really sad? If someone told me that you or any other member of LGM was experiencing some "down time", that "thing" in me would make me want to run to the rescue and do something to make your day better too...just because I've been down and know what it's like to feel that nobody gives a ???? about you. In fact, I know all too well.
