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Offline Keys410

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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #20 on: February 06, 2008, 02:34:52 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:30:18 PM
Exactly.  I am going to do flowers and a card that says "you are a cool girl...i'm glad we are friends...i appreciate you for being you the way only you can...happy valentine's day".


Plain and simple.

Sounds like you will be missing out....
I would just send the flowers and see what happens...
If your fear is commitment we need to call the Elders of LGM...LOL
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #21 on: February 06, 2008, 02:36:18 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:30:18 PM
Exactly.  I am going to do flowers and a card that says "you are a cool girl...i'm glad we are friends...i appreciate you for being you the way only you can...happy valentine's day".


Plain and simple.

I apologize. I was under the impression that you wanted to date her.

If I were you I would get her something that she is gonna use all the time. So every time she uses it she is gonna think of you. Them flowers gonna be dead in a week :D
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #22 on: February 06, 2008, 02:39:27 PM »
Quote from: under13 on February 06, 2008, 02:36:18 PM
I apologize. I was under the impression that you wanted to date her.

If I were you I would get her something that she is gonna use all the time. So every time she uses it she is gonna think of you. Them flowers gonna be dead in a week :D

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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #23 on: February 06, 2008, 02:48:29 PM »
Even without the fear of commitment thing, I don't like her like that (or at least, I don't wanna like her like that).

She's "that girl".  Like the kind you would call a play sister, so to speak.  Just a cool little homie.

The woman has kids, I've never had any.  I can't see dating (no matter how fine she is....can't ignore that).

She is just so COOL to me that I wanna do something to make her day special that one day like she does for us in the office EVERY DAY without fail.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #24 on: February 06, 2008, 02:49:27 PM »
Well, i am confused.. What do you really want to do? Whats in your heart?
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #25 on: February 06, 2008, 02:56:50 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:48:29 PM
Even without the fear of commitment thing, I don't like her like that (or at least, I don't wanna like her like that).

She's "that girl".  Like the kind you would call a play sister, so to speak.  Just a cool little homie.

The woman has kids, I've never had any.  I can't see dating (no matter how fine she is....can't ignore that).

She is just so COOL to me that I wanna do something to make her day special that one day like she does for us in the office EVERY DAY without fail.

See the "Play sister" thing doesn't work for me...
It only comes into play when there is something causing me not to holla. Otherwise the play sister gets thrown out of the window and it's fair game.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #26 on: February 06, 2008, 02:56:50 PM »
Quote from: LEYLAH on February 06, 2008, 02:49:27 PM
Well, i am confused.. What do you really want to do? Whats in your heart?

As with anyone I meet, my hearts desire is always to see someone who brings happiness to others be made happy for no particular reason.

She is a real "sweetheart".  Let's put it like this...I think of her the same way I think of Chevonnee (who is happily married).  Chevonee is "that girl".  Whether it's chords to a song, or advice about life...she is "that girl".  It doesn't mean I am in love with her, but having her in my life for the reasons she is there is more of an honor than a curse.

I am really glad to have Tracy as a friend.  She's the creme of the crop when it comes to nice, caring, understanding females.  Everybody needs to be understood.

Sometimes she stands over my shoulder and reads you guys' replies to my posts and she'll break out with "they didn't understand what you meant...but I did".

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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #27 on: February 06, 2008, 02:57:45 PM »
What does she look like?
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #28 on: February 06, 2008, 03:00:45 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:56:50 PM
As with anyone I meet, my hearts desire is always to see someone who brings happiness to others be made happy for no particular reason.

She is a real "sweetheart".  Let's put it like this...I think of her the same way I think of Chevonnee (who is happily married).  Chevonee is "that girl".  Whether it's chords to a song, or advice about life...she is "that girl".  It doesn't mean I am in love with her, but having her in my life for the reasons she is there is more of an honor than a curse.

I am really glad to have Tracy as a friend.  She's the creme of the crop when it comes to nice, caring, understanding females.  Everybody needs to be understood.

Sometimes she stands over my shoulder and reads you guys' replies to my posts and she'll break out with "they didn't understand what you meant...but I did".


Just curious, why isn't she "the one" instead of "that girl" considering the qulities she's demonstrated. I understand htat sometimes "it just aint thata way" and probably will never be. But, ususally, there is a reason she's not the one.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #29 on: February 06, 2008, 03:03:34 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:56:50 PM

She is a real "sweetheart".  Let's put it like this...I think of her the same way I think of Chevonnee (who is happily married).  Chevonee is "that girl".  Whether it's chords to a song, or advice about life...she is "that girl".  It doesn't mean I am in love with her, but having her in my life for the reasons she is there is more of an honor than a curse.

I am really glad to have Tracy as a friend.  She's the creme of the crop when it comes to nice, caring, understanding females.  Everybody needs to be understood.

Wow, thats interesting.... Im really speechless..
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #30 on: February 06, 2008, 03:07:45 PM »
Under13 needs to accept his prophetic license!!!  WOW!
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #31 on: February 06, 2008, 03:11:23 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 03:07:45 PM
Under13 needs to accept his prophetic license!!!  WOW!

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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #32 on: February 06, 2008, 03:12:47 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:56:50 PM
As with anyone I meet, my hearts desire is always to see someone who brings happiness to others be made happy for no particular reason.

She is a real "sweetheart".  Let's put it like this...I think of her the same way I think of Chevonnee (who is happily married).  Chevonee is "that girl".  Whether it's chords to a song, or advice about life...she is "that girl".  It doesn't mean I am in love with her, but having her in my life for the reasons she is there is more of an honor than a curse.

I am really glad to have Tracy as a friend.  She's the creme of the crop when it comes to nice, caring, understanding females.  Everybody needs to be understood.

Sometimes she stands over my shoulder and reads you guys' replies to my posts and she'll break out with "they didn't understand what you meant...but I did".



Yeah, but your girl ain't married. So whats the problem. Man you aint going to find to many women who can understand you...Real Talk
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #33 on: February 06, 2008, 03:17:14 PM »
Why Valentine's Day? ::)

Do you STILL have your flu? Is the Mucinex NOT working?  :-\


Send her a card, tomorrow and be done. THAT'S friendly. Anything else is asking for trouble.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #34 on: February 06, 2008, 03:21:15 PM »
Aight cannon....
Here we go,
Its clear that you dig shorty
as more than just a friend....

And its clear that she digs you.
But be careful....
You never wanna play ya self.
(not saying that you are)

But chicks can flip da script quick on a dude.

I think the flowers and the card is a good look....
But to keep everything in neutral.....
Stay away from red roses....
Make it easy like some callow lillies...(is that how you spell it??..LOL)

Anyway...
Its a good move....
But don't jump the gun....
Put it out there...as a gesture of thanks...
and thanks only.....
And see how it comes back to you....
And once you're sure that it can go further....
Jump on it!!
 :D :D :D
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #35 on: February 06, 2008, 03:21:35 PM »
Quote from: sjonathan02 on February 06, 2008, 03:17:14 PM
Why Valentine's Day? ::)

Do you STILL have your flu? Is the Mucinex NOT working?  :-\


Send her a card, tomorrow and be done. THAT'S friendly. Anything else is asking for trouble.

If he feels that way then he should do this...

Question: How is sending flowers being to foward..Mixing the title with the situation...
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #36 on: February 06, 2008, 03:23:45 PM »
Quote from: Redy2bUsed on February 06, 2008, 03:21:15 PM
Aight cannon....
LOL@cannon   Don't talk about Herman's head.    ;D
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #37 on: February 06, 2008, 03:25:38 PM »
Quote from: Keys410 on February 06, 2008, 03:21:35 PM
If he feels that way then he should do this...

Question: How is sending flowers being to foward..Mixing the title with the situation...

Flowers can say the 'wrong' thing, in a woman's mind. My issue with this is is WHY VALENTINE'S DAY, as I've stated.


You couple a gesture of friendship with Valentine's Day, and you could be in for problems that one 'ALLEGEDLY' doesn't want.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #38 on: February 06, 2008, 03:36:47 PM »
I had never thought of Valentines day as something for friends.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #39 on: February 06, 2008, 03:40:28 PM »
Quote from: themidiroom on February 06, 2008, 03:36:47 PM
I had never thought of Valentines day as something for friends.




Me niether

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