Because whenever we talk about situations involving "ex's" she always talks about how she is so consumed with school, work, and the boys that she doesn't even have time to date.
The next sentence is usually about the ex husband and how he keeps the boys some weekends and thinks he still "got it like that"...blah, blah, blah.
I sense (maybe in my "spirit") that a lot of the school/work/boys thing is a cover up for being lonely.
I know better than ANYONE how that one factor weighs down on you on 2/14 of all days, so I wanted to do something to make hers special in spite of what "looks like" a cover up for being lonely.
I'm not saying "I wanna date you".
BUT "for all that you do around here, and for being a smart, educated woman...I hope this Valentine's day will remind you in some way of just how much you mean to other people".
Is that too much?