I can definetly relate to that. You should always push the envelope in practice, thats ok. Practice is where you develope a certain feel for a song, & find out what works & what doesn't, especially when there vocals. I'm quite sure there are bass players that overplay, & think they are really doing somethin, & sound a mess. But I live close to Chicago, so when I do go to local concerts, I get to hear bass players like, Fitzgerald, cat named Little Rodney, Sharee Reed plays for Pastor Meeks, Salem Baptist Church every sunday, this cat out of Decatur Ill. named Eric, he played with Pharis Evans Jr & SWV, he's a bad boy, & Derrick Hearnes. Went to a local concert a few yrs ago, The Blakely Family & Joel Smith Played. So maybe I have just been spoiled. But I must add, I don't go alot, so maybe you brothas have experienced this attitude, more than I have.