In this world you're never going to win. You're always too gay, too black or too saved. They start gay churches (which i think is sick) but i kinda get why they do. In the REAL church they're hopeless outcasts. Da.......Dang!
Personally, I don't find it to be sick at all. Only a fool would continue to come to a place where they're being mocked, ridiculed, bashed, and abused, and where they aren't wanted. Consider this very thread. The OP started off by posing the question, "why do they flock to the church choirs" (indirect quote)? That question implies that they are not wanted in the church choirs because of their sexuality. Okay, so if they aren't wanted there, and they don't want to be straight, or are trying to be straight, but having a hard time becoming straight, what should they do? Stay home? Drop out of church?
I got news for ya: many of them do. Too many. And some pastors feel that burden, so they build open-door churches (usually called "inclusive") where gays and all other sinners are welcome. To me, there's nothing sick about that. In fact, it's healing. They are shown love and acceptance. Some of them are loved right out of their sin. Some are not.
You gotta remember that while many pastors do, with pure hearts, preach the word that God gave them, exactly as He gave it: with lovingkindness; there are many others who rant, bash, and abuse people who don't look or walk like them. These folks get all up in the flesh and use their pulpit as the perfect opportunity to say all the things they've been thinking all their lives, whether God told them to say it or not. So, where should these outcasts go? They're abused in the church (many of them), but they love the Lord. Most of them were born and raised in the church, and can't find a place there now. So, where should they go, Herman?
I know im late but just out of curiousity
Consider boy Jay's from America's next top model
Is he gay...feminine?
Or maybe he is just as str8 as the rest of you wonderful men of God...and just didnt have a father...or maybe he did have a father... hmmm... by the looks of this thread... im sure this can be an option.... as well as for the rest of these guys....
Re: Jay, I don't know whether he's gay. You'd have to ask him. I've never been in his bedroom, and I doubt anyone here has. I could speculate, but why?
And uh, do you know those gentlemen whose pictures you posted here? Just curious. It's a small world, sis.