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Offline JustBecause

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MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« on: March 10, 2008, 01:50:02 PM »
How would you work on someone who has this issue...

In order for the person to do something for you, they have to be getting somethng out of it...

In order for this person to do something nice, they HAVE to see their benefit in it...

No matter what you say or do to the person they will have something mean and nasty to say... But then laugh it off as if it was a joke...

Anytime something is done by this person as a nice gesture... the person has to counter the good by doing something bad... Like Say something that doesnt need to be said and then the person again laughs as if it was the funniest joke in the world...

Would I go to jail if I just bust this person to da white meat!!!! >:(
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #1 on: March 10, 2008, 02:11:22 PM »
1. My mantra: mean people suck.

2. This person wouldn't be in my world.  If I had no choice but to deal with them (i.e. at work, in my family, or at church), it would be business only.  No chit-chatting, no fraternizing, socializing, hanging out, laughing, or talking by the water-cooler.  I have NO SPACE in my world for mean people.  They just su... well, see #1.
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #2 on: March 10, 2008, 02:27:41 PM »
I wouldn't have anything to do with them also.  If I chatted it would be to say hi and i wouldn't ask any favors from such a person.  I would think about the scripture in Psalm 1:1.    Don't even have a dwelling among a person like that.  It will rub off on you and that doesn't help you at all.

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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #3 on: March 10, 2008, 03:01:06 PM »
I, aree with LaRue....mean people suck.  I, try my best not to spend to much time in the company of said people, unless it's absolutely neccessary.  The less time, the better, because it is really a sore spot for me and i'm not where I, need to be spiritually in handling people with this nature.

Someone in my family has a tendency to be this way at times and when they're acting this way, I have no communication with them at all.  It's hard, because my family is not large at all and it hurts to say the least, but i'd rather have my peace of mind.

YES,  YOU WILL GO TO JAIL IF YOU BUST EM IN DA HEAD TO DA WHITE MEAT! ;D
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #4 on: March 10, 2008, 03:07:48 PM »
YES,  YOU WILL GO TO JAIL IF YOU BUST EM IN DA HEAD TO DA WHITE MEAT! ;D

DANG!!! I see imma hafta pay someone to do it... hehehehe
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #5 on: March 10, 2008, 03:11:43 PM »
DANG!!! I see imma hafta pay someone to do it... hehehehe

Ummmmmmmmm, that's a crime, too!  Go have yoself a big ole bowl of Haagen Dazs and......WOOOOOOOOOOOSAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAHHHHHHHHHH, lol lol lol lol  ;D
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2008, 03:20:49 PM »
Leave them alone, and dont have nothing to do with them. And as far as the white meat, girl you aint goin to jail for that... I done did it plenty of times... and I am still as free as a bird.

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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #7 on: March 10, 2008, 03:54:55 PM »
Ummmmmmmmm, that's a crime, too!  Go have yoself a big ole bowl of Haagen Dazs and......WOOOOOOOOOOOSAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAHHHHHHHHHH, lol lol lol lol  ;D

Funny you should mention WOOOOSAAAAAAAAA... Because I am actually in anger management... HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #8 on: March 10, 2008, 04:00:39 PM »
Funny you should mention WOOOOSAAAAAAAAA... Because I am actually in anger management... HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA


That's a good thing!  Then there won't be any bustin'.... ;D
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #9 on: March 10, 2008, 04:11:10 PM »
Honestly, I feel sorry for people that are like this. They are obviously living a miserable life. There is some deep rooted internal problem that needs to be fixed. They need to be healed.

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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #10 on: March 10, 2008, 05:08:59 PM »
And as far as the white meat, girl you aint goin to jail for that... I done did it plenty of times...

Like in the gas station incident?  LOL!!!  :D
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Re: MEAN AND SELFISH PEOPLE!!!!!!
« Reply #11 on: March 11, 2008, 08:32:05 AM »
Like in the gas station incident?  LOL!!!  :D

Do you know I am going to be in her wedding??? Talk about spooky. I hope I aint gotta whoop her up again. She is getting married to a dude I used to date at church.
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