Just pray and ask God for direction. If it is His will, He will make a way for you to work things out with your mom and for you to serve in another ministry. He did it for me! Let me tell you this story. I had been raised COGIC for 16 wonderful years. Since the time I was 4 years old I began to become active in the youth department. God saved me at the age of 9. I received the Holy Ghost at 14. One day, about 2 and 1/2 years ago,she asked me to go to church with her and I did. When I went there I made instant lifetime friendships with now my boyfriend, and my 2 spiritual sisters. I loved it so much that I continued to attend but then I stopped and went to back to my home church for 1 year. in 2005 i went back for a visit in September. and a person had asked me where I had been and I said that i was at my home church. He said why not make this your home? I mean last year you attended here for a little while then you left. but its not by accident that you came here tonight." those words stuck with me. I again started attending the church and I started getting attached to it. Then one night I asked a friend what would you do if you went to one church and been there but you went to another church and you feel that you are at home. She said "pray and ask God for direction, ask Him if this is where He wants you to be. ask Him if He were looking for you, where would He want you to be." That very night I went home and I prayed and told God " you know my heart, but I want to know where you want me to be, show me where my destiny is, show me where i'm meant to be.then i went to bed. that night i had a dream of me directing a BIG youth choir in front of a big crowd and I heard a voice say " and they shall be called Unity..for where there is unity there is strength. then i woke up. I knew right then that I had to leave my home church. I told my mom about it and she said that wherever you feel that God is telling you to do, you do it. she let me go to the church i attend today because it was God's will for me. Later on a wednesday night, the pastor told me my dream, and that night I again received the Holy Ghost and joined the church. I've been there now as a member for about 1 year and about 2 months altogether its been 3 years. now im the youths choir director, drama director and praise dance leader for about 11 months now. God has opened up new things in my life. so just ask Him to show you where you're supposed to be.