I know this is the end of the party and ya'll have turned on the lights, but here goes

... a little something I already have said one here:
I do not see in the BIBLE, where God has called women to PASTOR (shepherd a congregation). I do, however, believe women are called to preach God?s word, after all I am a called female preacher! I have preached for my husband on Sundays, I've taught Mid-week services, given the invitation, even ?hooped? a bit, but I am not seeking after that which I believe is not mine---Pastoring.
In I Timothy 3:1-7 the qualifications of a Pastor are outlined. The bible says, in 1 Timothy 3:2
"A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife." I think we can all agree that the Pastor, Bishop (whatever title he has) is the head of your local church.
First, the head of the church, if HE is going to be married, he must be in a monogamous relationship. Notice this verse is gender specific, for it says the husband of one wife, and not the spouse of one.
Then it says in I Timothy 3:4,
?One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity.? From the beginning of humanity, man has been given the command by God to be the head, or ruler of his house. A women cannot possibly meet this requirement since she is not the head of the family.
The local church and it?s office is a spiritual matter. It is God's design. Remember all the verses in the Bible compliments one another. In Ephesians 5:22-23a,
"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife." Marriage is a spiritual matter. Marriage is God's design.The Bible makes it clear in I Timothy when it outlines the qualifications of the head of the local church, but when I add Ephesians into the equation, I cannot get around the fact that God has placed my husband as head of my house and head over me spiritually. Why would God reverse roles in His church. If I were a Pastor, my husband would have to submit to me. God is not a flip-flopper.....that's us.
Some would like to dispute the fact that some men are not worth submitting to, but God's Word says "to your own husband".
It Doesn't say:to your saved husband
to your husband that got a job
to your husband that's not cheating on you
and so on...
There are many female Pastors who are doing a great work, but that does not mean they are in the place God intended for them to be. Don?t confuse what your physical eye is witnessing. The Word of God is true. God is sovereign. God uses who He wants to do what He want. Our eyes may see a great work, but our hearts must understand God?s grace and God's permissive will.
One thing, however,
I will never disrespect a female Pastor. If she is in that position, I will give her the utmost level of respect and if ever placed in the position to, I will submit to her leadership. One thing I have learned, when it comes to Kingdom business, God demands submission to those in authority.