well I am truly sorry you feel that way. That is not what I meant. I am nothing of "self-righteous and very judgmental." I just gave my thoughts. Reguardless that is what I believe, if you agree you do if you don't you don't.
And about the children situation, so yo mean to tell me adotive parents can't feel the same love as though if they had the child on their own? just a question. You are intitled to believe how and what you want, that is the great thing about God He gave us choices. I feel as Christians we don't have the same faith or we don't obtain the faith we should have. That is my thoughts. It is what it is, I am not trying to argue or have bad blood with Nobody.
In order to give an INFORMED answer and not just some opinion, I would have to have
both given birth to a child
and raised an adopted child. I have not experienced BOTH, so I cannot answer that question. To answer would be pure speculation.
As for the other part, I totally respect your opinion, and that was never the issue. My issue was that you came across like you were pointing fingers at those that don't share your opinion. Your tone was indeed judgmental, even if you didn't mean for it to come out that way.
One of the things I love the most about message boards is the variety of opinions and ideas held by its members, and that there usually isn't ONE cookie-cutter, "one size fits all" answer for everyone.
