You two separate!! 
Just like in Sunday School
class when ya'll were 9yrs old.
I've had just about enought of you two.
As long as you have gone to them already....
If they continue....
Give it over to God.
And leave it there.
Thats just how I feel....
I have no idea why I'm answering these questions....
I ain't no preacha!!!!
I just thought about this a little more. At first, I agreed, but now I think I'd have to add to that, lest someone be led astray.
If someone continues to do something you've already told them offends you,
AND you've forgiven them, then you can certainly just give it over to God and leave it there.
BUT... if you're angry or frustrated, harboring resentment, ill-feelings, or grudges, or just have an overall negative feeling about them, you need to be sure to forgive them FIRST... then, you can just leave it there and keep on moving.
I'm really talking to myself here, but talking aloud...
This hit me kinda close to home because I have about four people in my world that I just decided to "dismiss" altogether, after they have offended me time and time and time and time and time again and again. I figured that I just have to accept them for who they are, leave them behind and move on. But, now that I'm thinking about it, I still resent each of them and have ill feelings toward them. Is this a blemish on my heart, or can I still claim to have a pure heart without going to them first? I dunno. To be completely honest, I have no intention of going back to any of them ever again, but after talking this out (with myself.... lol), I guess I'll have to find a way to forgive on my own.
