Kinda?!? Well, I was ticked off. I was ticked off because mostly all of it stems from being closed minded and jealousy. As I've stated, the videos that I've seen on that forum are hideous. The same could be said about those videos - they all sound alike. Being that I am open minded, I just listen to how they sound, and not judge it because something sounds similar.
If you think about it, there are common denominators in all genres - it's what you add to your playing is what makes one stand out.
Regarding the common denominator statement, most of them wouldn't see it that way, as they live in glass houses.
Why get mad when you realize the source of it all? I laughed... quite hard, actually. As for metal, rock, punk drummers... I have found them to be the most loyal, most interested, most intrigued, with regard to the style, the products, and the brand. Honestly most of the scorn, hatred, jealousy, ect. that I have personally experienced has been from within my own community. Real talk.

Jazz cats show love. Rock cats show love. The international communities show
major love. Conversely, many that have grown up with it, heard it every Sunday, and can do it themselves tend to take it for granted and appreciate it less. Actually, the most fulfilling feeling is when I have the pleasure of talking with the pierced, tatted, spiked haired dudes from other communities that are interested in what we do. They want to know exactly what is is that the black church community does that can produce a cat that can win the Guitar Center Drumoff at nine years old. They want to know what in the world Lil' Nick is eating to get that good while being that young. They are curious and interested, but they ain't steppin foot in your church because when you start rolling in the floor and drooling, they get terrified! They're thinking, "Dude! That's crazy! Did you see that?!" I'm thinking, "Aww yeah, we bout to have chuuuuch up in here."
We come from different places. That open mind will allow you to embrace the differences. There is positive and negative on both sides.
One thing though - I suck, man. Really, I do. 
I assume that you have already repented for that one...
God bless
