Topic: J. Moss: Child support case hurting reputation (Read 67817 times)

kodacolor · « **Reply #140 on:** January 23, 2009, 05:05:25 PM »

Quote from: THE WOLFMAN on January 23, 2009, 05:04:16 PM

*sings*

"oh she got spurrs, that jingle jangle jingle...."

*sings back up*

"Jingle jangle"

MissMusic04 · « **Reply #141 on:** January 23, 2009, 05:16:54 PM »

This should really be left alone. This is too much.

BigFoot_BigThumb · « **Reply #142 on:** January 23, 2009, 05:26:19 PM »

Quote from: kodacolor on January 23, 2009, 05:05:25 PM

*sings back up*

"Jingle jangle"

Jangle-Lang, Jangle-lang.

nessalynn77 · « **Reply #143 on:** January 23, 2009, 05:39:32 PM »

LOL! I know from my own experiences it is easy to get caught up in the emotional hype, but we all love the Lord, so I know we know how to reign it in when necessary.

Wouldn't be LGM if it didn't get a little warm in here now and again, lol.

Loopy · « **Reply #144 on:** January 23, 2009, 05:47:03 PM »

Quote from: nessalynn77 on January 23, 2009, 05:39:32 PM

LOL! I know from my own experiences it is easy to get caught up in the emotional hype, but we all love the Lord, so I know we know how to reign it in when necessary. Wouldn't be LGM if it didn't get a little warm in here now and again, lol.

Now THAT'S fo sho!

brutha28 · « **Reply #145 on:** January 24, 2009, 08:27:19 PM »

Quote from: BigFoot_BigThumb on January 23, 2009, 02:48:56 PM

I really didn't want to respond, but NOW I gotta call you out.  Wasn't it YOU that was up in here last week asking for a song by K-Ci and JoJo? 

http://www.learngospelmusic.com/forums/index.php/topic,63349.0.html

Yeah, it was.  Instrumental or not, it's still secular.  To be such an opponent, you certainly should have disagreed to associate yourself with or play a song by K-Ci and JoJo be it their history.  Now what do you have to say?

Now I'm done.

The title of the song is this very moment. It is a wedding song. and if you read my request it was for a wedding. I dont listen to those songs for leasure. When have I asked for a secular song on this board. So that negates your accusation completely. It happens to be a nice song that is intended for weddings not for shacking people. I dont have any KC and Jo Jo cd's otherwise i would not need to ask for them...lol...wow...its good though I dont need to debate my reasoning for asking for certain things. You were calling me out by the way.

brutha28 · « **Reply #146 on:** January 24, 2009, 08:30:08 PM »

Quote from: BigFoot_BigThumb on January 23, 2009, 03:11:18 PM

That's redundant. It all ties in together. It is contradictory. That just like me claiming to dislike heavy metal music and many of it's elements, but then I do a heavy metal gig because it pays well or a friend asked me to.

What? I dont own ANY KC and Jo Jo, and the point is that song is an older song anyways. I see your point though but it is not relevant in my case. I asked for 1 song and it was not on my behalf. and by the way We did not even do that song for the wedding. So it was not even used.

LaylaMonroe · « **Reply #147 on:** January 24, 2009, 08:31:10 PM »

***passes Brutha28 a P-Smoothie***

BigFoot_BigThumb · « **Reply #148 on:** January 25, 2009, 05:42:01 AM »

Amazing.

ArcaneValor · « **Reply #149 on:** January 26, 2009, 09:02:50 AM »

These...are the

Days of Our Lives.

renartamac21 · « **Reply #150 on:** January 26, 2009, 02:27:26 PM »

And the bible says 'be sure that your sins find you out'.....um looks like someones sins are sounding out loud and clear for all u church folks that say dont judge or dont u say that... ok we'll let the facts speak...
Responding to bruth28, I was one of the one that said we dnt have a right to judge and we dnt. Regardless if you think its religious or whatever. Ive fall and made so many mistakes but I got up and kept moving and God forgave me and now Im stronger now than I ever was in him. My whole reason for my post was to say that we need to pray that this never happens again and that God heals and bring clarity and direction to him so he can make the right decisions. That was my whole point. Not be all holy than thou or to cover up my on sins or whatever. I just knw God to be a forgiven God because he has forgiven me so many time and I just hope that JMoss has repented and asked for forgiveness.

God Bless you guys.

malthumb · « **Reply #151 on:** January 26, 2009, 03:21:29 PM »

I did this

for 8 pages, but now I feel compelled to say something.

I am not condemning J. Moss. I do have concern for him because there is a thread of bad decisions running through this episode. It is one thing to make A bad decision, but to CONTINUE to make bad decisions could mean that either you are stuggling more mightily than others may think, OR your value set is in alignment with the bad decisions you are making. I hope for his sake that it is the former and not the latter.

Bad Decision 1: Sexual involvement with someone other than your spouse.

Bad Decision 2: Offering to pay for an abortion when the consequences unfold.

Bad Decision 3: Withhold contact from a child (assuming he is the father).

Bad Decision 4: Default on the hearing to establish support arrangements.

Any one of these mistakes can be explained, overcome, and forgiven. But stringing them together and continuing to demonstrate consistently bad judgement does point to where the heart is truly at.

Peace,

James

BigFoot_BigThumb · « **Reply #152 on:** January 26, 2009, 04:07:26 PM »

Quote from: malthumb on January 26, 2009, 03:21:29 PM

Bad Decision 2: Offering to pay for an abortion when the consequences unfold.

That part could have easily been suggested by her as well in order to get money or maybe even a huge payoff to go through with it. Still doesn't excuse J. Moss, but it's all about her in the story so many possibilities exist.

Back in 1996 I had a young lady that I was seeing tell me that she was pregnant. She then said all of this stuff about she wasn't ready for a child and she had too much to do to have a child and basically asked me to give her money for an abortion to the tune of around $500. I told her no, I want you to have it and we will raise it together. She then said nevermind, I'll take care of it myself. Now that was a little too easy, and I saw what the real attempt was. She was promptly cut loose. Heck come to find out, she was even coming to see me in some other dude's car that she first told me was her's.

Another issue is, why didn't she bring all of this out to the public when she first got pregnant. Could it have been that she really wasn't sure it was his in the first place? Extortion maybe? She isn't a totally innocent party either. I mean we really don't know the entire story. And let's remember, the media will edit a story to make it extra juicy even if they have to embellish a little bit. Just like JB and Weeks, we pretty much only heard one side for the longest. In a way he has a right to fight as far as the amount is concerned. My sons needs didn't cost $1200+ a month for diapers and formula. He still doesn't as 2 yrs old.

Dude messed up, and I am kinda angry with him for it. He fell for that one weakness that many women know that men have married or not. I wish these dudes would learn that it's OK to resist and can save you a lot of trouble I the long run. It has been said that a few moments can ring you a lifetime of pain. He may have to go into secular full-time as a result if the Gospel side shuns him. Should the Gospel industry forgive him? Should we?

LaylaMonroe · « **Reply #153 on:** January 26, 2009, 04:08:47 PM »

Quote from: malthumb on January 26, 2009, 03:21:29 PM

I did this for 8 pages, but now I feel compelled to say something.

I am not condemning J. Moss. I do have concern for him because there is a thread of bad decisions running through this episode. It is one thing to make A bad decision, but to CONTINUE to make bad decisions could mean that either you are stuggling more mightily than others may think, OR your value set is in alignment with the bad decisions you are making. I hope for his sake that it is the former and not the latter.

Bad Decision 1: Sexual involvement with someone other than your spouse.

Bad Decision 2: Offering to pay for an abortion when the consequences unfold.

Bad Decision 3: Withhold contact from a child (assuming he is the father).

Bad Decision 4: Default on the hearing to establish support arrangements.

Any one of these mistakes can be explained, overcome, and forgiven. But stringing them together and continuing to demonstrate consistently bad judgement does point to where the heart is truly at.

Peace,

James

I just want to say that I love the way you formatted your post. It was so easy to read, and that means a lot to someone with ADD.

(seriously, though).

Also, your BD#2 and BD#3 are hearsay. We don't know that they are true. But in general, I agree. Especially with the part in bold. That was a very good point, well said.

This is the thread that doesn't end
It just goes on and on my friend
Some people started posting in it
Not knowing what it was
And they'll continue posting in it
Forever just because this is the thread that doesn't end
It just goes on and on my friend...

Brittsings87 · « **Reply #154 on:** January 26, 2009, 04:11:30 PM »

Quote from: LaRue1212 on January 26, 2009, 04:08:47 PM

I just want to say that I love the way you formatted your post. It was so easy to read, and that means a lot to someone with ADD. (seriously, though).

Also, your BD#2 and BD#3 are hearsay. We don't know that they are true. But in general, I agree. Especially with the part in bold. That was a very good point, well said.

This is the thread that doesn't end
It just goes on and on my friend
Some people started posting in it
Not knowing what it was
And they'll continue posting in it
Forever just because this is the thread that doesn't end
It just goes on and on my friend...[/b]

KingBassLife · « **Reply #155 on:** January 26, 2009, 04:30:06 PM »

.....hmmm.... $:-\$

This thread SERIOUSLY needs a benediction lol
Allow me *clears throat*

*raises right hand*

*Old Preacher voice*

" Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable in thy sight oh Lord my strength and my redeemer, Let all God's people say Amen...."

SirTJ · « **Reply #156 on:** January 26, 2009, 04:44:08 PM »

Quote from: KingBassLife on January 26, 2009, 04:30:06 PM

" Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable in thy sight oh Lord my strength and my redeemer, Let all God's people say Amen...."

Let us retire to the fellowship hall where Fish Sandwhiches are being sold by the Junior usher board.

kingrhollo · « **Reply #157 on:** January 26, 2009, 04:55:32 PM »

Quote from: SirTJ on January 26, 2009, 04:44:08 PM

Let us retire to the fellowship hall where Fish Sandwhiches are being sold by the Junior usher board.

LOL!!!!!!!!!!

nessalynn77 · « **Reply #158 on:** January 26, 2009, 04:58:23 PM »

Quote from: SirTJ on January 26, 2009, 04:44:08 PM

Let us retire to the fellowship hall where Fish Sandwhiches are being sold by the Junior usher board.

Wait! I have to sing "Is Your All on the Altar" and open the doors of the church. (That's for Rue) LOL!

kodacolor · « **Reply #159 on:** January 26, 2009, 05:05:26 PM »

Quote from: LaRue1212 on January 26, 2009, 04:08:47 PM

This is the thread that doesn't end
It just goes on and on my friend
Some people started posting in it
Not knowing what it was
And they'll continue posting in it
Forever just because this is the thread that doesn't end
It just goes on and on my friend...

LaRue?!?! You stole my post!

still....

ROLMBO

Author Topic: J. Moss: Child support case hurting reputation (Read 67817 times)

ArcaneValor

Brittsings87