Here is a thread that will give help & insight for musicians who feel they are JUST about to get over that 'hump' but don't really know what the next step to take. Adding your own experiences to this post is EXTREMELY encouraged and GRATEFULLY appreciated.
1. Start buying DVD's of your favorite artists instead of CD. The cost, especially at Wal-Mart, are about the same as if you were getting the CD. Some of your favorite songs are played for an extended period of time & musicians have more licks they'll play and you'll be able to hear them. The mastering process for a DVD is not the same as a CD and certain runs and fills you'll hear an organ or piano play you won't hear on a CD. If the camera catches it, you'll also see the fingering.
2. NEVER miss an opportunity to play with ANY other musicians. Certain runs you can't figure out, someone else did, and vice versa. Also, you'll be amazed at who thinks YOU are the tight player in the band.
3. Seriously, start listening to what 'other' christians are singing. I mean if you're black, start listening to what whites are singing. This will help build your arsenal of songs and also will develop your ad-lib skills for when you hear a song you like and you wanna change it up to suit your liking or your church's liking.
4. If you can, start paying attention to CD's you KNOW are not being played on the radio. Of course, your town will have your local artists in a particualar store that you need to help out, but also go to Best Buy, Circuit City, Wal-Mart, etc. and check out CD's that are out by certain artists. iTunes really doesn't do a good job keeping up to date gospel music so I wouldn't lean on that too heavy. I've learned in my experience that when an artist's second or third album is released, if that album is good, people will start to purchase the previous CD's. With you already having it, you'll be ahead of the game. I myself JUST realized that PAJAM produced marvin sapp's 'nothing else matters' CD. That was about two or three years before you started hearing their name regularly.
5. Wait your turn. Your turn is coming for your shine to be flashing folks in the face. Each musician has levels to achieve and sooner or later, that musician that you idolize and wanna be like will find opportunities to advance their career and by doing so, will leave a vacancy where you've been staring at. Just be patient and find that time to practice and get good at your skill. Of course there will be times when your favorite musician will have circumstances come up from time to time and you're gonna have to fill in anyway. Those are the times where you do not do 'over' what's necessary. Let the church know, 'hey I got skills too. Given the opportunity I can be an effective part of this ministry just like the other guys.' Nine times out of ten doing this MIGHT pave your OWN way to where other people are idolizing YOU.