It's not so much that gay marriage will or will not have an effect on YOUR marriage or my marriage. It's that gay marriage will have an effect on "marriage" according to what marriage is supposed to be.
Gay marriage is as wrong morally and Biblically as open/swinging marriages, abusive marriages, getting-drunk-and-going-to-Vegas marriages and so on.
None of them are entered into via the model that God laid out for us to follow. ......
The part in
BLUE is EXACTLY why I say in my first post on this topic that I wish it could be called something other than marriage. I mentioned in another post on this topic that we as Christians are subject to two sets of laws. The laws of the Bible and the laws of the land. The problem with the word marriage is that it is subject to one or both of these same sets of laws. The DC situation (and New Hampshire, and every other state considering this)can only be decided on the basis of the law of the land. Not everyone in DC is a Christian, so the laws governing DC should not (by Constitution)be drawn from solely Biblical law. There are Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, agnostics, atheists, and followers of other religions living in DC. We Christians should not be subject to the laws of their faiths and they should not, through civil law, be subject to ours. Look to the Middle East for examples of how that plays out.
All I'm saying is that we can and should hold on to the moral aspects of why we disagree with gay marriage, according to the convictions of our faith. We should not, however, bind civil law by our theological beliefs. That's all I'm saying.
The part in
RED is an example of what I'm getting at. Other than the aspect of
abusive marriages, nothing you've cited there is illegal. Stupid? Yes. Immoral? Certainly. Illegal? No. Thing is, you can't successfully legislate against stupidity, even when it crosses the line into the realm of immorality.
Unfortunately we have to separate the Biblical ideal of marriage (loving bond until death do part) from the legal model of marriage (two of adult age and consenting). That's why I've always been against the idea of gay marriage but accepting of the idea of civil unions. Same thing, different name. Legal standing, but no standing in the church.
Peace,
James