No, I hate use those shortcuts...
Have you ever held a grudge for a long period of time?
Yessss!!!! Only one time though, and I'm still not sure why because in hindsight, it really wasn't that serious.
My college roommate/best friend and I fell out yearrrrrs ago. Since then, she's married, had children, and moved to Georgia, about 30 minutes from me. The third person in our best friend triangle, who keeps in touch with both of us, has kept us both up-to-speed on the goings-on in each other's lives... but neither of us made any effort to reconcile. A few months ago, our mutual friend sent a friend suggestion to us on FB, and we got back in touch as though nothing ever happened.
I think one of these days, I'd like to apologize, but to be honest, I'm not even sure how we ended up not speaking. LOL!
Have you ever wondered if you could get away with committing a crime (not a traffic violation)?