sounds like an apple and oranges and apple-orange fruit drink debate is going on here .. but I may be missing something
1 person is saying if you are about your father's business then you will be willing to do it for free
1 person is saying if you are getting paid then I want to get paid also, no point in you using me to get richer
1 person is saying while the 1st person is right, most if not all of these "events" are to make money not about our Father's Business
Did I get that right?