I don't have scientific proof, but I find it hard to believe that black women (big butts or otherwise) are having a hard time with being "selected". For the record, I love petite women too; the convo seemed to imply that there was/is no love for those who didn't that requirement--so I think we are saying the same thing (the win/win comment). I can see one individual guy saying he likes petites, or busty, hips, butts, feet, whatever. I don't see how someone can lump black women as a whole into a group of unattractiveness for males across the board and there not be an issue on that person who believes that's side. There's a lot of people out there male and female--and they're all different. That includes what they like in terms of "selection". So be who you are, know that you're beautiful, and connect with someone who values the real you.