Ummm,
1. I'm happy for Kobe and Vanessa. I really hope they work it out.
2. If I were close friends with him, I would advise him to feed her some line about wanting to start afresh. Get a quickie divorce, slip her a mickey, force her to sign a prenup, and then marry her again.
3. I'm partially joking on #2.
4. I do not delight in sharpshooting. That's really TJ and SJ, and sometimes Nessa (but she only does it when she finds it funny). Yes, I am a member of the Sharpshooters, but that is not by choice. I cannot help who God made me.