THE NOBODY REALLY CARES THREAD

[JustBritt]

Awww. I guess I don't feel so bad.

I remember my mom telling me she was the same way growing up. Kinda made me depressed!  LOL!

IDK I guess looking back with all the close friendships I've had and how much we would go out and have fun. Now everybody's all grown and stuff. 

Around here, all everybody wants to do is club. And I'm not about that life! LOL

I don't even like going out that much because of my stupid curfew.  Like I'd just rather stay home.

[B_X]

B_X, shut your face!

I KNOW you ain't no "loner"

Trying to front like you're one of us.

I kicks it by.my.self.... LOL. I don't have a clique. People want to kick it with me because I am fin and exciting... LOL... but I really do keep to myself.

And NO, I am NOTHING like any of you...

[Fenix]

Sjon, shut it! You too????

I'm leaving this site.

[JustBritt]

We'd lock ourselves in the house and never be heard from again.

"You see that house over there?  That's the old Joooones house.  One day old Jonesy and his wife went in that house and never came out."

BOL!!!

[B_X]

I kicks it by.my.self.... LOL. I don't have a clique. People want to kick it with me because I am fun and exciting... LOL... but I really do keep to myself.

And NO, I am NOTHING like any of you...

FUN and exciting... LOL...

[Arkhams Finest]

I kicks it by.my.self.... LOL. I don't have a clique. People want to kick it with me because I am fun and exciting... LOL... but I really do keep to myself.

And NO, I am NOTHING like any of you...

[B_X]

SMH...

[blyempowered]

No, I'm very serious. I'm sure everyone has at least one ride or die friend. I ain't got that. I'm a loner.... always have been. It's all good though.

Making me evaluate my circle. As everyone knows, my circle has changed radically in the last year or so and I'm fine with that. I'm mostly still a loner but every now and then I get together with my friends for dinner, bible study, etc. But I must admit: I kind of feel like I don't have that 1 friend I'd call randomly and be like "let's meet at Panera today." I'm learning to be more assertive and take initiative though.

 

[JustBritt]

Making me evaluate my circle. As everyone knows, my circle has changed radically in the last year or so and I'm fine with that. I'm mostly still a loner but every now and then I get together with my friends for dinner, bible study, etc. But I must admit: I kind of feel like I don't have that 1 friend I'd call randomly and be like "let's meet at Panera today." I'm learning to be more assertive and take initiative though.

 

Yeah...I'm a loner in a room full of people. I just.....IDK. lol.

I think my issue (as far as friends) is a bit deeper than that, but I hate analyzing myself. So I won't get into it. 

[blyempowered]

Yeah...I'm a loner in a room full of people. I just.....IDK. lol.

I think my issue (as far as friends) is a bit deeper than that, but I hate analyzing myself. So I won't get into it. 

Hmmm...*thinking* 

[Fenix]

I hate to say it, B, but your issues are issues that may need to be dealt with. I know it hurts to analyze yourself, but trust me, it is ultimately very rewarding.

The only other option is for you to have someone in your life who knows you VERY well. I have a friend who I don't even bother to fool. He knows me to a degree nobody knows and told me things about myself that both hurt but were ultimately super-beneficial. I cannot put a price on his value in my life.

[SirTJ]

Britt, are you sure you're a loner? A loner wants to be alone. You don't sound like you necessarily want to be alone. It sounds like you're just bored with the people you're surrounded by.

[/DrTeej]

[Fenix]

She's a loner. Shut it, TJ.

[JustBritt]

I hate to say it, B, but your issues are issues that may need to be dealt with. I know it hurts to analyze yourself, but trust me, it is ultimately very rewarding.

The only other option is for you to have someone in your life who knows you VERY well. I have a friend who I don't even bother to fool. He knows me to a degree nobody knows and told me things about myself that both hurt but were ultimately super-beneficial. I cannot put a price on his value in my life.

I DO have one of those people. Which is probably why I haven't "opened" up to her in a while lol.

Britt, are you sure you're a loner? A loner wants to be alone. You don't sound like you necessarily want to be alone. It sounds like you're just bored with the people you're surrounded by.

[/DrTeej]

Surrounded by what people?!  The kids at work and my parents?! LOL.

[Fenix]

Well actually B, TJ has a point. You have made several posts that seem to indicate that you have people in your life who are bugging you. It does appear that its not so much that you are a loner, but that you have the wrong sort of people surrounding you and you don't know how to get the rught kind of people around you.

Oh and in regards to your friend, open up.

[JustBritt]

Well actually B, TJ has a point. You have made several posts that seem to indicate that you have people in your life who are bugging you. It does appear that its not so much that you are a loner, but that you have the wrong sort of people surrounding you and you don't know how to get the rught kind of people around you.

Oh and in regards to your friend, open up.

Hmm.... perhaps.

[SirTJ]

She's a loner. Shut it, TJ.

You just REAAALLLY want me to choke you, huh pink boy? Bet you like the color of this font, don't you?

[JustBritt]

You just REAAALLLY want me to give choke you, huh pink boy? Bet you like the color of this font, don't you?

 

I love pink, btw!

[blyempowered]

Well actually B, TJ has a point. You have made several posts that seem to indicate that you have people in your life who are bugging you. It does appear that its not so much that you are a loner, but that you have the wrong sort of people surrounding you and you don't know how to get the rught kind of people around you.

Oh and in regards to your friend, open up.

Absolutely! Opening up can be so refreshing!

[JustBritt]

Absolutely! Opening up can be so refreshing!

Agreed.