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Brittsings87

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I'm in so much grief !
« on: September 04, 2009, 02:02:08 PM »
Literally! My heart is aching.

Yesterday, a friend of mine showed me a few pics of one of my friends/sisters who now does porn. I'm still kinda in shock. I knew she did porn, but actually seeing it,(the pics)................... I told her I didn't wanna look at anymore. It's just so sad to see her in that state, (there's much more to the story that I wish not to share). *Sigh* we were extremely tight, I hung out with her and her family more than I did my own family (we're practically related anyways lol).


Then, just now, I may be late on this news. But my best friend was just telling me about the chick from the tv show, "In The House". She told me to go to youtube and look up Maia Campbell. I won't post the clip on here because this is a gospel site, and its pretty explicit. Anyways, she's strung out on drugs and is apparently prostituting. I read/heard that it was because of the death of her mom.


But anyways, I'm just in deep shock, and there goes the chest pains lol. My heart is so heavy!  :'(

I'm not even sure why I posted this! LOL

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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #1 on: September 04, 2009, 02:07:14 PM »
Literally! My heart is aching.

Yesterday, a friend of mine showed me a few pics of one of my friends/sisters who now does porn. I'm still kinda in shock. I knew she did porn, but actually seeing it,(the pics)................... I told her I didn't wanna look at anymore. It's just so sad to see her in that state, (there's much more to the story that I wish not to share). *Sigh* we were extremely tight, I hung out with her and her family more than I did my own family (we're practically related anyways lol).


Then, just now, I may be late on this news. But my best friend was just telling me about the chick from the tv show, "In The House". She told me to go to youtube and look up Maia Campbell. I won't post the clip on here because this is a gospel site, and its pretty explicit. Anyways, she's strung out on drugs and is apparently prostituting. I read/heard that it was because of the death of her mom.


But anyways, I'm just in deep shock, and there goes the chest pains lol. My heart is so heavy!  :'(

I'm not even sure why I posted this! LOL

THat's awful to hear about your friend. Who knows why people make the choices they do. But all you can do is pray for her and be there for her is she ever decides to turn her life around.

Pray about and let it go or it will continue to weigh heavy on you. If you're still close to her maybe you could even talk to her...

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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #2 on: September 04, 2009, 02:08:55 PM »
Then, just now, I may be late on this news. But my best friend was just telling me about the chick from the tv show, "In The House". She told me to go to youtube and look up Maia Campbell. I won't post the clip on here because this is a gospel site, and its pretty explicit. Anyways, she's strung out on drugs and is apparently prostituting. I read/heard that it was because of the death of her mom.

oh snap.

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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #3 on: September 04, 2009, 02:18:16 PM »
I saw that video yesturday and I was very disturbed. IMO you tube should remove it. Those guys should be ashamed for exploiting her like that. They were quite obviously provoking her and taking advantage of her state of mind at the time... >:(
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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #4 on: September 04, 2009, 02:21:57 PM »
Yeah the Maia incident is unfortunate.  

As for your friend, the industry puts out MAJOR dollars so I can see where the struggle could come in.  Back in college, I considered being a webmaster in that industry.  I had almost convinced myself that I wasn't partaking in the actual scenes of the industry, but just collecting the benefit.

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« Reply #5 on: September 04, 2009, 02:24:27 PM »
I saw that video yesturday and I was very disturbed. IMO you tube should remove it. Those guys should be ashamed for exploiting her like that. They were quite obviously provoking her and taking advantage of her state of mind at the time... >:(

Exactly! I was told that the dude was her pimp. When I first wacthed it I didnt' wanna see the whole thing. But I decided to watch it.

Apparently the dude that was video taping her, was related to her bf or pimp, whoever he is to her. And her bf was fussing at her because she was fussing at the dude who had the camera in her face. Then she was like oh so now I'm finna get beat up, but you alright, Ima get beat up, but you straight! So sad...

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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #6 on: September 04, 2009, 02:26:08 PM »
I saw that video yesturday and I was very disturbed. IMO you tube should remove it. Those guys should be ashamed for exploiting her like that. They were quite obviously provoking her and taking advantage of her state of mind at the time... >:(

I don't guess I know who she is. The title of that show is not familiar to me.

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« Reply #7 on: September 04, 2009, 02:26:48 PM »
Yeah the Maia incident is unfortunate.  

As for your friend, the industry puts out MAJOR dollars so I can see where the struggle could come in.  Back in college, I considered being a webmaster in that industry.  I had almost convinced myself that I wasn't partaking in the actual scenes of the industry, but just collecting the benefit.

Thank God I got it together. :)

Yeah, her dude/pimp is making her do it for the money.  :-\
I don't guess I know who she is. The title of that show is not familiar to me.

Really? I'll see if I can find a clip of the show...

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« Reply #8 on: September 04, 2009, 02:32:47 PM »
I just looked her pic up and now I remember the show.

Wow, I hadn't heard any of this about her. That is sooo sad. I liked her as an actress. That's a waste and a shame!

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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #9 on: September 04, 2009, 04:59:04 PM »
I know the feeling.  A young lady I've known since I was 12 got into porn.  I was shocked, because yes, she always had the body, but she was not that "type" as far as personality.  She went to a good school, was very intelligent and well spoken , and grew up with money.  Even embraced the "pro-black" persona.  So how did this happen?  I've never seen her film.  I just don't want to see her like that for real.  You think you know some people.   
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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #10 on: September 04, 2009, 05:15:21 PM »
Darn I guess I'm in the dark with this one cuz I've never heard of this lady either. I'm afraid to look it up on Youtube so I'll just take your word for it. I almost went into that kinda lifestyle too when I was younger...I was about to become a stripper.. :-[ :-[ :-[ Thank God for saving me from myself.
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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #11 on: September 04, 2009, 05:34:19 PM »
Maia Campbell's situation is so sad because she is bi-polar.  When her mother author Bebe Moore Campbell died, she just lost it and got hooked on drugs and stopped taking her medication.  These fools in her circle are exploiting her and showing how much they don't care about her by exposing her like they are.  They want to tear her down because of what she used to do instead of trying to build her back up and get her some help.  That video made me wish I could reach in there and beat all of those people down that were crowding around laughing at her.  God will deal with them. 

Mental illness is not funny at all because that person truly can't help it.  When you're on drugs it's one thing, when your mind is messed up from the jump it's another.  I had my eyes opened a while back when I saw some things first hand and it changed me.  I just can't laugh at things on TV and movies anymore where they make fun of people with mental problems.  I actually get a little mad because they have no idea what that person is going through, and it's not the least bit funny. 


Now as for the young lady in porn.  Many of these girls are drawn in by the money more than anything.  It affords them a lifestyle many dream of that only money can provide.  With the fame comes more money and so on.  It's easy money and enjoyable to an extent that makes it appealing for many.  With money ruling the world, they just try to get all they can now never thinking of the long-term price they pay.  It's amazing how many thousands of women are out there doing this type of thing that you never know about.  Somebody you work with could actually have an amateur porn movie or two floating around out there.
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Re: I'm in so much grief !
« Reply #12 on: September 04, 2009, 08:08:06 PM »
Oh my God.  I pray somebody in her family or somebody who loves her will go and get her out of the midst of that foolishness and get her some help.  That's just horrible. 

If you listen though, she knows what's going on, and I think some of what she's saying is true, you know how sometimes people write folks off as crazy or strung out, but they say stuff that cuts and people want to dismiss them because they don't want anybody to pay attention to the truth?  That's what I felt when I watched that vid.  God help her and these guys that have no conscience to exploit her like this. 

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« Reply #13 on: September 04, 2009, 08:31:11 PM »
WOW, sorry to hear that Britt. I'll be praying for your friend.

And what's this about Maia Campbell? I didn't know she had problems like that. No wonder I haven't seen her on any movies or T.V. shows lately. That's so sad, I'll keep her in my prayers as well.
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« Reply #14 on: September 04, 2009, 10:02:57 PM »
WOW, sorry to hear that Britt. I'll be praying for your friend.

And what's this about Maia Campbell? I didn't know she had problems like that. No wonder I haven't seen her on any movies or T.V. shows lately. That's so sad, I'll keep her in my prayers as well.

Mental illness is also why actress Lisa Nicole Carson(Jason's Lyric, Devil in a Blue Dress, ER, Ally McBeal) disappeared from TV and movies.  She was diagnosed with schizophrenia and it started to affect her work because she was hard to deal with.  Supposedly it all started while she was doing Ally McBeal.  She was good and intense as an actress.  These celebrities have real problems just like us because they are still regular people.  They just make more money.
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« Reply #15 on: September 05, 2009, 12:54:36 AM »
Be encouraged Britt, I'll be praying for your friend!

I know it looks impossible, but all things are possible with God! I know it's real bad, but there is No low too low for J E S U S! His Blood can wash it all away! He can clean her up so good that nobody would ever know where she came from unless she told them. Then He will turn around and use her for His Glory!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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« Reply #16 on: September 05, 2009, 11:09:19 AM »
Thanks everyone for the encouragement and prayers for my friend. I'm not so much concerned about her or grieving for her. Well I do hope and pray  she doesn't get an STD or whatever. But I strongly believe she won't be in that situation for long. I've known she's been doing this for a while now. It was just the pics that kinda made it like......"Wow". But anyways, when I saw the clip of Maia I was just really torn and I don't even know her. She's def. going on my prayer list. That thing had me heavy all day yesterday. Most of the time when I see celebrities in that state I just say oh wow and KIT. But I had a different reaction with this one. Speaking of which I use to pray for Whitney Houston alot. Thats my girl lol.

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« Reply #18 on: September 06, 2009, 06:27:03 AM »
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« Reply #19 on: February 02, 2012, 02:06:23 PM »

Then, just now, I may be late on this news. But my best friend was just telling me about the chick from the tv show, "In The House". She told me to go to youtube and look up Maia Campbell. I won't post the clip on here because this is a gospel site, and its pretty explicit. Anyways, she's strung out on drugs and is apparently prostituting. I read/heard that it was because of the death of her mom.


Idk if y'all remember this discussion, but I just came across an update on Maia Campbell and I remembered the thread.

Glad to see some GOOD news today. :)

http://madamenoire.com/134255/im-a-survivor-maia-campbell-talks-new-career-and-sobriety/
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