I think you're confusing the words compassion and coddling. Youre the only one that assumed that when ppl spoke of love and having compassion, that it meant we tip toe around and softly speak and try not to upset them. That also seems to be a large basis for your argument, yet no one has said anything about "babying" ppl. Just that the christian hardcore approach does not always work (Prov 18:19). You seem to uplift your way of doing things yet deem others way of reaching "weak" which is rather offensive, esp. in LM's case, where she has lead homosexuals and others to the Lord with her approach. It also seems that once she stated her experience, you somehow tried to "soften" her witness, by separating the two types of homosexuals being spoken of, as if now the ppl she referred to were somehow weaker or in a softer state than the protesters, AT THE SAME TIME presenting a consdescending tone as if she is somehow less knowledgeable in the Word (which is kinda why she was like, you dont know her). You gotta get to know ppl, read around, do a lil research. And in a parallel, thats what we sometimes have to do with the angry, "God hating" type of ppl. See their angle, to see where that hate lies and how we can best combat that and reach them. You're not going to reach hate with a big Hebrews light saber. Just sayin.